LastToKnow wrote: ... at any rate, the above post lacked something and seemed almost closed minded and authoritatively preachy.
Qualities for which I'm internet famous, I'm sure.
There are some things that just don't mix well w/ wearing a chastity device, especially if it isn't the "perfect fit" or privacy is threatened
I could probably have put more time into crafting my essay, but the essential point is this: It's perfectly okay not to make the device the most important thing in your life. Yes, we're all looking for the magical device that can remain on while we make the trathlon time trials, go spelunking, paraglide, etc., but the *reality* is that most devices are simply unyielding plastic or metal tubes, supported by your underwear and some loose skin.
And look, I'm not saying that people shouldn't keep trying to find the perfect device, or stop modifying their devices, or anything like that. I'm just saying that my own life became easier when I stopped trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.