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@ KittensBoyToy « Sat 2:27 pm »
Second, in writing here I will refer to genitals in different terms depending on the context. The terminology/language doesn’t change the fact that they are hers to control and use as she sees fit.
@ KittensBoyToy « Sat 2:24 pm »
To answer a couple of your questions. First they are Kitten’s genitals. I gave control and ownership to her when she locked the first cage on me. The various devices are hers, too. She just ordered ’her’ custom HTv3. I paid for it but it will,along with its contents, belong to her!
@ easy going « Sat 12:38 pm »
I just read the terms and abbreviations thread, I didn’t know the penis vaginal intercourse abbreviation, when I came across "figging" is that truly a real thing? sounds incredible!
@ easy going « Sat 11:57 am »
one guy got called out on it, he was being a jerk, and the administrator almost kicked him out for capitalizing his name. needless to say, I changed my name before it was an issue
@ easy going « Sat 11:54 am »
for example, on another fetish site that I belong too, it is improper to capitalize your screen name unless you are a bull, subs have to lower case thier name: like the abbreviation D/s
@ easy going « Sat 11:52 am »
I mean like site ettiquette, because the moderators posted rules for this site, which boiled down to "don’t be a dick"
@ easy going « Sat 11:50 am »
but I mean from keyholders on this forum and chaste/unchaste guys here too
@ easy going « Sat 11:49 am »
well, individually and with my huny buny, it’s not really an issue that just depends on the wife’s mood
@ Lockedforwife « Sat 11:39 am »
I think it all depends on the individuals and the dynamic of the relationship
@ easy going « Sat 11:37 am »
I kinda thought about starting a thread about it, but decided here and now answers are better than documented answers and also theres probably already a thread somewhere
@ easy going « Sat 11:35 am »
and also, when describing genital parts, does a a chastised guy have the right to call his penis: a cock or dick, and his testicles: balls; or are slang terms left for men with uncaged genitals?
@ easy going « Sat 11:32 am »
men, who currently practice chastity, are their genitals considered to be theirs, or are they property of the key holder?
@ easy going « Sat 11:30 am »
I had a question for the chastity members group
@ Lockedforwife « Sat 10:26 am »
Lol no. Just cleaning things up around the house.
@ easy going « Sat 10:24 am »
did I scare you guys away?
@ easy going « Sat 10:11 am »
it really helps during beach season to put a few layers of sun on sensitive areas before going into public
@ easy going « Sat 10:10 am »
so now what I have is a garden paradise that can only be seen from exact spot by the entire street...when no one is home I go and get some nude sunbathing in my back yard
@ easy going « Sat 10:08 am »
my back yard is aconnected to two neighbors on either side of me, and there is about 30 of us on one side of the street, while only two on the other side, well even though we shouldn’t have privacy, mboth of my neighbors put up wire fences years and years ago, and someone planted really intrusive vines to grow on the fences
@ Lockedforwife « Sat 10:05 am »
Well I guess only one way to find out! But I really doubt it. Even if it were to act that way you still generally have to focus the light coming through to do anything.
@ easy going « Sat 10:03 am »
I was wondering about that actually, for us using the cclear cb, if we were in the sun nude, you think the plastic cage would turn into a magnifying glass?
@ easy going « Sat 10:01 am »
yeah, some of us can only strip down to one less layer than the others☺
@ easy going « Sat 9:59 am »
I’m in PA, it’s sunny dripping wet humidity, and gonna rain every 8 hours- like clockwork!
@ Lockedforwife « Sat 9:58 am »
Good morning! And no kidding Kitten! Only so many clothes you can take off and still remain socially acceptable.
@ easy going « Sat 9:58 am »
is that California?
@ Kitten « Sat 8:54 am »
A happy, sunny Saturday morning to one and all. But then, sunny here at 9am just means another scorcher August day. 😎😅
@ Kitten « Sat 8:51 am »
@ lee_floridaboy « Fri 12:15 pm »
FYI to any and all...I am an old farm boy and have found that using a product called "Vermont’s Original Bag Balm Ointment ’ works very well to keep the metal cage from chaffing
@ lee_floridaboy « Fri 12:05 pm »
and more time can be added at any time to the K-Safe if I am bad
@ lee_floridaboy « Fri 12:04 pm »
am not in the cage all the time. We use a K-Safe timed release up to 10 day settings available and no way to get key out until time is up is good for me to endure my lock up time and enjoy my freedom
@ lee_floridaboy « Fri 12:00 pm »
I know...but still a hard topic and especally if with all my MRI and ultrasound tests for cancer all negative praise God...was wondering if maybe those night involintary errections is what could be putting stress on the prostate blood test in 2 months will see how it goes before I tell
@ KittensBoyToy « Fri 11:57 am »
@lee_floridaboy, I am under the care of a psychiatrist at the VA for various issues, many of which center around home life. I discussed the chastity situation with her at our last visit in a matter-of-fact manner She wa not only not judgemental but congratulated me/us for taking action to help our marraige. I would feel the same about discussing it with my GP or a urologist. They need all the informaton available to properly treat you. BTW, my PSA levels are slightly elevated but it started long before my entry in to chastity.
@ Lady M « Fri 11:34 am »
Don’t make it out to be some forbidden fetish, instead be very matter of fact about talking to them about it.
@ Lady M « Fri 11:34 am »
@lee we have not had any issues with the prostate at all but I would think, if you have a good urologist, you should tell them. They are your doctor and their job is to serve you.
@ lee_floridaboy « Fri 11:01 am »
sorry for the
@ lee_floridaboy « Fri 11:00 am »
Good Morning! New to this site and I a looking for advice to see if anyone has experienced any prostate high PSA from long term chastity ware for I am not sure if tat is that case with me, but don’t want to tell my Doc that I am in chastity Help?
@ Kitten « Fri 10:36 am »
Mornin’ y’all
@ Tullyboy « Fri 10:25 am »
Good morning!
@ Lady M « Fri 7:53 am »
Morning and happy Friday!!!
@ easy going « Thu 2:15 pm »
seems chatty now .and I got a couple welcome messages...I’m still learning where the buttons are here so please excuse me if I post something weird somewhere
@ Schnoff « Thu 2:14 pm »
There’s a Discord linked that is much more active.
@ Schnoff « Thu 2:13 pm »
I don’t have "approximately", we don’t keep metrics about that. And --- it’s not a hopping chat
@ Schnoff « Thu 2:13 pm »
@easy going - between 0 and 2, anecdotally?
@ easy going « Thu 1:54 pm »
how many folks come here to chat? approximately
@ Schnoff « Thu 1:19 pm »
Where this chat lives can be changed in your user settings. Above or below the forum bits.
@ Schnoff « Thu 1:18 pm »
Heya @Finn :)
@ easy going « Thu 1:16 pm »
I’m referrig to a different chat site
@ Finn « Thu 1:14 pm »
I’ve not seen the chat function before....Interesting.
@ easy going « Thu 1:12 pm »
I prefer one place to chat, I hate when there’s 20people on line and the chat room is blank or all "hellos" because everyone is pming
@ easy going « Thu 1:11 pm »
I just didn’t want to offend if there was different places to go .
@ Kitten « Thu 1:10 pm »
😂 Schnoff. Me either.
@ Kitten « Thu 1:09 pm »
We were unsure of the correct ring size in the beginning so we bought a set of sizing rings from Mature Metal. They worked great.
@ Schnoff « Thu 1:08 pm »
Haha @easygoing about the unshaven bits. It took me a couple years to acclimate to "don’t you dare shave even a single hair". I thought at least grooming some was best. My D-type disagrees. I can say one can change even deeply held preferences :)
@ Schnoff « Thu 1:06 pm »
There is only this one chat area. We can create rooms open only to members, or only to keyholders. That requires some backend work. There hasn’t been demand up until literally "now", so the "admin team" consensus was to leave it be for the moment.
@ easy going « Thu 1:05 pm »
thing I hate...all the pinch points! and it seems there is always one hair out there left unshven!
@ easy going « Thu 1:04 pm »
Ithe thought of shoving my testicles through a small hole frietens me, and usually my penis gets erect while I’m pushing things around, that’s what I like about the cb series, two piece ring
@ easy going « Thu 1:00 pm »
so is this the only chat area or is there a private area, or specialized rooms
@ Schnoff « Thu 12:58 pm »
I’m not sure I entirely follow @Kitten’s measurement idea here, I only know to measure circumference around the base of the penis behind the balls, which doesn’t include the testicles themselves ... and yes, you’d want to be sure you’re measuring the right thing. My response to you assumed you did.
@ Kitten « Thu 12:52 pm »
Hi & welcome C-Curious. Was the 57mm both of your testicles? If that’s the case, you only need to get one through the ring at a time.
@ Schnoff « Thu 12:50 pm »
@c-curious I responded to your threat. Congratulations, you get to go custom from the word "go".
@ Schnoff « Thu 12:49 pm »
@reinest Initial pain is small. Healing is a bit faster at initial 8ga, but, same difference. My experience was that sexual activity still "pinched" at these smaller gauges. That may not be a concern of yours :)

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