Too sensitive

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Aarkey
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Re: Too sensitive

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Lady M wrote:it's a Cyberskin Wildfire Dream Dick. I really like it better than anything I've tried... and I've tried a lot. :)
Thanks. I'll look into it. Not to derail the discussion...
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Re: Too sensitive

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My husband gets very sensitive after being locked up, which can be both good and not so good. I am interested in knowing what other women have done to make their man last longer after he has been locked up.

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Re: Too sensitive

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gummicouple wrote: I am interested in knowing what other women have done to make their man last longer after he has been locked up.
My g/f likes to use Orajel on me when she wants to continue the denial. A little bit on the head, wait a couple of minutes, and put on a condom. It works VERY well at numbing me and lasts about 20-30 minutes.

There are also desensitizing condoms produced by most of the major companies. They take a couple of minutes to work, and begin to wear off after about 10 minutes for me, but they can work for some too. Though unless you unravel it the entire length, some of the desensitizing cream can get out along the bottom and affect the woman. A second regular condom over it (unwrapped a little further) can prevent that.
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Re: Too sensitive

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Thanks for the top on orajel. I had heard about using a desensitizing cream with a condom, but have not yet tried it.

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Re: Too sensitive

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gummicouple wrote:Thanks for the top on orajel. I had heard about using a desensitizing cream with a condom, but have not yet tried it.
Glad to help. It works very well, is totally safe, and much cheaper than some of the creams sold for the purpose. Finding the right amount to use can be a bit tricky, too much can be too strong for some men - though the excitement at being used that way can make up for any lack of physical sensitivity for some ;)
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