Ideas for punishment?

[braddogg4345]

Are you into anal play? If yes, a punishment in case you have been naughty could be wearing a butt plug for a few hours straight. At the beginning you will feel it pleasurable but after some time your sphincter muscles will start to feel sore and you will feel enough discomfort to want it out of you.

If you have said something you shouldn't, your wife could punish you enforcing your 'silence' by locking a ballgag on you.

A soft S&M punishment could be bondage. You can easily find videos online explaining how to do that. Few hours blocked in an uncomfortable position will make you think about your mistakes.

If she is really upset, have her locking you penis up with some nettle leaves. You will deeply regret whatever you have done.

I have never really tried anal play. I would be down for it (im down for trying pretty much anything), but i dont think my wife would be up for that....not yet anyway. Same with the ball gag. She would probably go for the bondage though, as long as its not anything too crazy. She is kind of weary about the whole punishment idea, so i am taking baby steps...lol.

[maybenexttime]

If you want an actual Punishment - with a capital P - it has to be something you don't truly enjoy and won't seek out. That might or might not be what you're looking for. With my partner, we do all sorts of things that would seem like punishments, but that we both actually like a lot - chastity, spanking, even very harsh physical things. In fact, for me, I don't think there's any standard corporal "punishment" that she could do to me - short of something that would physically harm me - that would actually serve as a real punishment.

That said, we found one thing that actually works, and that she has imposed a total of twice and that I do my damnedest to avoid. It's the penalty I pay for deliberately coming without permission, and I must admit it fits the crime perfectly.

Basically, I get a period of frequent ruined orgasms - at least once a day - before we go back to normal chastity. The first time she did this I was fucking her, it felt so good, and I just let myself go. She suggested that there should be a real consequence, and I had to agree. So for the next two or three weeks weeks, every time she caught me getting hard (and I was expected to, and did, continue servicing her needs orally, so that was not an infrequent occurrence), I was treated to a ruined orgasm. Believe me, this was very soon no fun at all for me, and it was a real test of my devotion and regret to not end the game right there.

Her technique is quick and efficient, and is absolutely unsatisfying from my perspective. She puts her vibrator on the underside of my penis, and then removes it, for successively longer intervals, until I come after it is removed. It usually takes less than a minute, and that's that. Every day, day in and day out, until I've served my time. And then a long (for us) perioid of chastity before I get a "real" orgasm.

Again, this is genuinely punitive for me. It leaves me with opposite of the sexy tension I get out of either tease and denial I feel punished, and I not in a good way, from it.

As I said, she's done this a total of twice, and I since accept that it's a consequence of my deliberately "stealing" and orgasm" it serves as a real deterrent for me. I hope she doesn't have to ever do it again.

Your mileage may, of course, vary.

[braddogg4345]

If you want an actual Punishment - with a capital P - it has to be something you don't truly enjoy and won't seek out. That might or might not be what you're looking for. With my partner, we do all sorts of things that would seem like punishments, but that we both actually like a lot - chastity, spanking, even very harsh physical things. In fact, for me, I don't think there's any standard corporal "punishment" that she could do to me - short of something that would physically harm me - that would actually serve as a real punishment.

That said, we found one thing that actually works, and that she has imposed a total of twice and that I do my damnedest to avoid. It's the penalty I pay for deliberately coming without permission, and I must admit it fits the crime perfectly.

Basically, I get a period of frequent ruined orgasms - at least once a day - before we go back to normal chastity. The first time she did this I was fucking her, it felt so good, and I just let myself go. She suggested that there should be a real consequence, and I had to agree. So for the next two or three weeks weeks, every time she caught me getting hard (and I was expected to, and did, continue servicing her needs orally, so that was not an infrequent occurrence), I was treated to a ruined orgasm. Believe me, this was very soon no fun at all for me, and it was a real test of my devotion and regret to not end the game right there.

Her technique is quick and efficient, and is absolutely unsatisfying from my perspective. She puts her vibrator on the underside of my penis, and then removes it, for successively longer intervals, until I come after it is removed. It usually takes less than a minute, and that's that. Every day, day in and day out, until I've served my time. And then a long (for us) perioid of chastity before I get a "real" orgasm.

Again, this is genuinely punitive for me. It leaves me with opposite of the sexy tension I get out of either tease and denial I feel punished, and I not in a good way, from it.

As I said, she's done this a total of twice, and I since accept that it's a consequence of my deliberately "stealing" and orgasm" it serves as a real deterrent for me. I hope she doesn't have to ever do it again.

Your mileage may, of course, vary.

My keyholder actually does ruin my orgasms quite a bit. She doesn't really do it for punishment though. She does it every week or so just to reduce buildup, i guess you could say.
The other night, while i was locked in chastity, i accidently came while i was spooning her in bed. There was absolutely no teasing, or humping. Nothing! I just blew my load. I told her it must have been because i was "backed up". Needless to say, i came without her permission, so i was punished the next day.

This punishment was the best she has administered to date. She put coffee grounds all over her hands and jerked me off. It was pretty painful. She did this for about 15 minutes before giving me a ruined orgasm and feeding me my cum. At least this time it had a coffee flavor to it...lol.
The reason i say that this is the best punishment i have received so far, is because she was actually causing me pain, and not only did it not bother her, but she actually seemed to enjoy it. This just says to me that there is potential to move to more intense forms of punishment. But we will see. To be continued...hopefully!

[groundedBird]

She put coffee grounds all over her hands and jerked me off. It was pretty painful. She did this for about 15 minutes before giving me a ruined orgasm and feeding me my cum.

That is something creative! Compliments to the missus for the initiative.

I bet you still enjoyed it, didn't you?

[Herkees]

My wife has almost lost her voice due to a sore throat...

I, without thinking too much, said last night that "I had some magic lotion, stored up over the last month, that would cure that sore throat..."

She instantly said "OK then - how about I lock you in that room, alone, without any internet-able devices, until you've produced enough of your "magic lotion" that would equate to one painkiller. I can have 4 paracetamol and 4 ibuprofen in a day. So eight times a day, you will stay in that room until you produce enough to relieve my throat like a painkiller!"

"Oh and normally my throat is sore for three or four days!"

I declined and apologised for my rude outburst...

Funishment maybe one or two times - the rest a definite punishment! Incidentally - she never did clarify whether she would unlock me first!

[Sammy]

I punished DH by signing him up to be on the board of the PTO at our sons school. Cruel? Yes. Unusual? Yes. Punishment doesn't stop at the bedroom door.

[TwistedMister]

I punished DH by signing him up to be on the board of the PTO at our sons school. Cruel? Yes. Unusual? Yes. Punishment doesn't stop at the bedroom door.

Oh, my. That has to be the most sick, twisted and perverted thing I have ever heard!

[Lockedchef]

She put coffee grounds all over her hands and jerked me off. It was pretty painful. She did this for about 15 minutes before giving me a ruined orgasm and feeding me my cum.

That is something creative! Compliments to the missus for the initiative.

I bet you still enjoyed it, didn't you?

what a waste of coffee

[braddogg4345]

She put coffee grounds all over her hands and jerked me off. It was pretty painful. She did this for about 15 minutes before giving me a ruined orgasm and feeding me my cum.

That is something creative! Compliments to the missus for the initiative.

I bet you still enjoyed it, didn't you?

what a waste of coffee

That was the worst part of the punishment! She used the good coffee too! Lol

[McAndrew]

The actual punishments here aren't that serious. It's all about me submitting to them, rather than the punishment itself. It's never anything that will leave a mark (we're nudists), but she has come up with a few novel humiliations. (Anybody else here done the washing up while being tied to the sink by the balls?)