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Well, I came home from work and she was sneezing and blowing her nose and obviously felt awful. ...so, still waiting. And worse yet, no teasing for me. Gods, why do you torment me so!?!? LoL Mrs. Twisted and I have been sick since a couple of days after Xmas, 2 different bugs, one on the heels of t...

Oh, yes, there are definitely times when I desperately want to be able to grab it and touch it and feel it grow, but I can't. Yes, it repeats...but if it stopped happening then much of the 'turn on' might be gone, and what would be the fun in that?

Being forced to be locked in a cage is what pushes my buttons, not being in control and unable to even touch myself. And it's not just 'honor system'- our rules say that she has the right to check at any time, and if I can't/don't get hard she can assume that I have cheated...the 'penalty' is extrem...

In my own self-experiments with prostate massage, I have not been able to achieve any emission (beyond a small amount on initial contact) without [also] being stimulated near to the point of orgasm first. Then, ceasing external stimulation but continuing with the prostate massage, emission occurs......

I think it can be a matter of degree of 'enjoyability', varying with the point at which stimulation is discontinued and the number (or lack thereof) and strength of contractions that occur. When I have an unambiguously 'full' orgasm, it can take several days for libido to return. When an orgasm is '...

'Progressing naturally' is definitely the goal. She wasn't feeling well today, so I'll have to wait and see how she's doing tomorrow. I think I need to just talk to her. Letters are great, but I feel like it would just make things awkward. I'm definitely going to write it all down, read and re-read...

Because my wife is only now opening up this door for herself, and I suspect she is entirely miss-understanding that there is nothing about this kink that I find pleasant. Does she expect that I will GROW to like it over time? Is that a thing in the chastity community? I need a better understanding ...

So now I'm confused. The other day I mentioned I was going to toss my cages to make room in the drawer and my wife said " I'd better not!" She's not mentioned anything about locking me up in months, since the post of this thread, nor have I. Now she has me thinking about it again. This is one confu...

Welcome to the forum. No, there is no hazing ritual for people who don't act like an imbecile.

Been using the same Master lock for many years, never have an issue with it. I've never put any oil in it...but then, you aren't supposed to. If you use anything in a lock, it should be a graphite powder spray...but I haven't had to use any of that yet.