Finally doing it for real but would like some advice

[Jo76+]

My wife and I have toyed around with chastity and have finally decided to make a go of it. Previously, we have done a week here and a week there plus the usage of a cage weekends. I am very happy and she is making her dream come true of a cage 24/7 and only four orgasms a year (as opposed to ten and a milking every week). Her demand was that I never ask for a milking and that one every month is reasonable.

Of course, after five days, I have blue balls, aggravated by play with a mouth dildo and some uncaged cuddling. I have tried ibuprofen but it’s fairly annoying and doctor Google isn’t very helpful. In the past, she has milked me to resolve that, but now it’s a no. I respect that and expect nothing. Any tips from you veterans on how to make it less painful? It’s been a week 24/7 now and I sleep well except for straining and friction, more so the last two days than in the beginning, but there is no leakage.

I use the real Holy Trainer v5 nano with a good size ring and it has worked well so far.

[TwistedMister]

Of course, after five days, I have blue balls...I have tried ibuprofen but it’s fairly annoying and doctor Google isn’t very helpful. In the past, she has milked me to resolve that, but now it’s a no. I respect that and expect nothing. Any tips from you veterans on how to make it less painful?

Think of other things. Do a little weight-lifting, particularly squats.

[Curiousrk]

Similar to Twisted… I ride bicycle a lot. They gives me juice to offset the lack of dopamine.

[denied_one]

Agree with physical activity. lifting weights definitely helps offset the energy and actually helps produce Vasopressin which is the "male version" of oxytocin

[Tom Allen]

Blue balls are caused by vasocongestion, a condition in which the blood is trapped and swelling the vessicles. Lifting heavy, squats and deadlifts, force your body to squeeze muscles and move liquids around. That's why it works to help the pain.

[Tongue+groove]

I have been watching this thread with intrigue. I have never had blue balls, at least that I know of. I always thought it was just hype until I consulted dr. Google(stolen phrase) . And apparently I have learned something new. And again I see that physical exercise seems to be the cure.

My conclusion is that since I’m constantly working out with a chainsaw, stacking green lumber, splitting wood or bucking hay bales is the reason I’ve never had reason to experience bb’s.

Just my unsolicited fwiw.

[samseaborn]

your device is a hair to small in the ring.

Put ring in boiling water and let it get good and hot then with heat proof gloves try and stretch it just a tiny bit