What would you tell your younger self about denial?

[Tom Allen]

A lot of us on this forum skew toward the "mature" side, and have recently discovered how being locked adds a dimension to our relationships.

If you were transported back in time, what would you say to your 20-something year old self about this?
And what would your younger self have to say about this?

I know that when I first stumbled across chastity devices, my initial thought was "Hell no! Why would I give up sex and orgasms?" I have no idea how I would explain what Mrs Edge and I do to my younger self.

[Tongue+groove]

Oh my what question. It causes me to reflect on a few occasions when Mrs. G tried to exhaust my sex drive. Once in our first year she set out to drain me dry in one session. She brought me to spurt 6 times in a little over 2 hours. Yep she successfully slowed me down for a couple of days.

On another occasion she guaranteed me a cum every day for thirty days. At the beginning of week 3 she had to close up shop for several days. I thought I was off the hook, but it was a week of blow and hand jobs. On day 30 I conceded that she was the master of my domain.

Try telling that guy that he came more in those two events than he would over the course of possibly years and he would have laughed you out of the room.

She still brags about those times.

[Steve2059]

I would tell young me that kinks are fine and nothing to be embarrassed about. I'd tell me to broach things with my wife and get some toys. I'd tell me that I don't always have to go on top and sex isn't an orgasm contest.
But did chastity cages even exist when I was young?

[GoshaKikut]

I understand that my situation is clearly not standard, since I don't really know what sex is. I know exactly what I would say to myself:
- Don't doubt, baby, you did the right thing. Sex is not worth worrying about his absence.

[Immaterial Penis]

I would tell my younger self to get a wife who will dominate you, lock you up and make you wear panties every day.
I wish I had known this life years ago...........

[TwistedMister]

A lot of us on this forum skew toward the "mature" side, and have recently discovered how being locked adds a dimension to our relationships.

If you were transported back in time, what would you say to your 20-something year old self about this?
And what would your younger self have to say about this?

I know that when I first stumbled across chastity devices, my initial thought was "Hell no! Why would I give up sex and orgasms?" I have no idea how I would explain what Mrs Edge and I do to my younger self.

I'm not sure that 20 year-old me could have handled it. I was good for getting off 6 or 7 times a day. I can only imagine how desperate I might have gotten after only a few days...

[Chosen_Jackal]

I think the lesson I’ve taken to heart that applies to so many aspects of my life is this. It’s better to savor and anticipate than to indulge too freely. Restraint and moderation increases the reward.