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Very happy my tirade gave some ideas on how to work through it. Good luck on your journey Fouineur!

Hi Obviously I am new to this forum. I am married to my wonderful wife who has agreed to enforce male chastity in our marriage and now has the keys to my temporary chastity device the HT v3. We have just ordered a Fancy steel male slim fit belt with anti pull out plate. This will be my perminent ch...

I don't like the constant vigilance about topping from the bottom in D/s discussions or when it comes to chastity, because I don't think that's necessary it as often as the term comes up. There should be an understanding on both sides, and I think that understanding here is missing on both sides: 1)...

I used shave the balls and around the base of the penis. Kept everything else trimmed as I'm very hairy all over and it would look very very strange to be bare down there only. However with the HT2 I've haid problems with ingrown hair at the top of the base (where the ring is very snug). So I only t...

Not sure about how it changes with age, Chastityat60 , but I've had my scrotum adjust in barely a month of use (with 3x1day breaks!) to a 5mm smaller ring. In the same weather. But on topic, I love the idea, Tom Allen - not out of necessity - but the pure utilitarian aspect of it. I feel like "honey...

Like I said, I could be way off but those were my takeaways after reading your post. I really related to the first paragraph I (snip) quoted above. Hey, you make a lot of sense (and by the way, I read your blog here, and it's fascinating - even moreso by the fact that our religious views are so com...

When (if) I have a "full time" keyholder, as in an actual romantic relationship involving chastity, I feel like I would want to have a safety key with me at any "risky" time. Sealed, signed envelope for example, or a wax seal with a pattern only she has control of, something like this - that keeps m...

I think I can give relevant advice here as I had a similar issue. I wore a CB6xS knockoff, but that's not too relevant other than my dick is apparently smaller than yours :D the major reason why I discarded it was it broke, but when the vendor offered to replace it, I opted for a Holy Trainer instea...

Not necessarily, actually. Maybe it's because I'm self-locked, with only partial involvement by my lady (who is more of a friend with benefits in "vanilla" terms) and because I haven't reached a certain treshold - I'm now 17 days locked (in a row, also the longest time so far, but was locked in befo...

I want to reiterate the difference a 5mm, even less, can make. There's a discussion about that somewhere where some of the more experienced members (heh) agree that even 2mm can make a huge difference. It's also a shared experience that the ballsack eventually adjusts, so I'm wearing the "50mm" (let...