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by Her-sub-in-training
Fri Oct 24, 2014 12:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Sore balls not from chafing -- advice??
Replies: 11
Views: 4283

Re: Sore balls not from chafing -- advice??

It really feels like blue balls PLUS the connecting plumbing to the boys. It goes down toward the front on either side of my unit. I think "fluid" is just backing up & swelling but man.... When it's bad it's bad. It only happens with extreme or continued arousal. If I was caged for a w...
by Her-sub-in-training
Fri Oct 24, 2014 9:40 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Sore balls not from chafing -- advice??
Replies: 11
Views: 4283

Re: Sore balls not from chafing -- advice??

I've been trying the "Valsalva Maneuver" with some subjective success. It may be placebo, but I'll take whatever relief I can get! It's apparently not that rare of a recommended method if you google it for more info. Maybe it'll assist others?!? "The easiest way to relieve the symptom...
by Her-sub-in-training
Fri Oct 24, 2014 8:49 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Her-sub-in-training] A good start & frame of mind
Replies: 1
Views: 3126

Re: [Her-sub-in-training] A good start & frame of mind

"Stockholm syndrome, or capture-bonding, is a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors, sometimes to the point of defending and identifying with them." Perhaps that's a component of the game too. Besides the end...
by Her-sub-in-training
Thu Oct 23, 2014 2:54 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Nat] Starting at the beginning...
Replies: 63
Views: 31079

Re: [Nat] Starting at the beginning...

Sounds like she really invested a good deal of thought and planning into executing an exciting experience for you. I think she's earned her reward !
by Her-sub-in-training
Wed Oct 22, 2014 6:10 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Her-sub-in-training] A good start & frame of mind
Replies: 1
Views: 3126

[Her-sub-in-training] A good start & frame of mind

My KY dom_617 and I are still at it & learning as we go. I'm working on developing more patience & being more submissive in the bedroom by controlling urges to top or get pouty if I don't get what I hope for. She's doing really great by being understanding & lots of communicating. It rea...
by Her-sub-in-training
Tue Oct 21, 2014 2:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Punishment experiences.
Replies: 19
Views: 11354

Re: Punishment experiences.

I'm probably going outside of the real punishment idea here bc I enjoy some pushing of boundaries & it's not really punishment, I suppose. But, some of the things we've done are likely real punishment to others. My faves include: --her tying me down & giving me a full brazilian wax (after th...
by Her-sub-in-training
Sat Oct 04, 2014 7:30 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is teasing better than orgasms?
Replies: 36
Views: 15048

Re: Is teasing better than orgasms?

Longest I've been denied is 6 days. I definitely didn't turn down cumming but I was actually hoping to be made to wait longer bc I was REALLY wanting to cum by then & in a super horny state. The point where it goes from self control to being controlled... Otherwise, I'd cum almost everyday. It d...
by Her-sub-in-training
Fri Oct 03, 2014 8:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Sore balls not from chafing -- advice??
Replies: 11
Views: 4283

Re: Sore balls not from chafing -- advice??

Tried the cb6000s w/ 2 largest rings, jailhouse w/ 1.75 ring, several hinged ring devices, etc... Thing is that as I get more turned on & time passes they swell a lot & just get REALLY painful. Beyond the point that I can even try to hide it. If minor, I can walk it out. But it's gotten to w...
by Her-sub-in-training
Fri Oct 03, 2014 5:02 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Sore balls not from chafing -- advice??
Replies: 11
Views: 4283

Sore balls not from chafing -- advice??

No matter the ring size we use, my balls get really swollen & sore (blue balls). It gets to the point where I can hardly walk & I'm not overly sensitive to pain.... Any solutions that yall can suggest? Thanks & btw, hello! I'm new & so is dom617, my KY.