PA 5000 Tonight

[John]

We are sat on the train heading home after a lovely weekend away. Jan decided while we were away that the wonderful orgasm she gave me on Thursday before we came away was to be my last for a while. Tonight I am to be locked into the PA5000.
This device has caused me some problems in the past by making my piercing sore. So we will be careful and, if necessary, we will revert to the trust systom. Something I find terribly difficult but which I have never cheated on.
So the plan for this evening is for me to give Jan a gentle massage in front of a warm fire and to start my lock-up period.
Does anyone else enjoy sharing a massage with their partner? Any tips for makink it extra special and erotic? We share a massage quite often - mostly I massage Jan, but she enjoys massaging me too. Sometimes it ends with wonderful sex, sometimes we just completely relax and enjoy.

[kpb57]

As as lubricant, we use the silicone based "Eros Body Glide".

I start out with her back, working first on the muscles left&right of the spine. I also run my knuckles along her spine, since she likes it (as "making her hot") and it sometimes lets vertebrae snap back into place that have gone out of position. Then I work farther and farther away from the spine; if I find "knots", I concentrate on working them out with thumbs, knuckles and fingertips. Sometimes I use alternating pressure on her back ribs, which also helps rotated vertebrae.
All this while sitting on the back of her thighs. If she shows me, I insert my member (with or w/o cage) between her thighs, so she can rub her sensitive area against it.

Then I get off her legs and start on the backside of her legs, finishing with her feet and my personal approximation of a reflex zone massage. I also make a point of kissing her feet and sucking her toes.

Then I have her turn on her back and start with her arms, from the shoulders down to her hands. Once again, kissing her palms, sucking her fingers.

After playing around with her breasts, I work the front side of her thighs.

If we are continuing in a more erotic direction, I then sit in front of her, with her legs spread out over my thighs, and start massaging her genital area with the flat hand, occasionally inserting a finger; just a little at first, then applying pressure to the "G-spot". This is something we got out of a Tantric video. We either continue until she climaxes or has me enter her for conventional intercourse.

Sometimes, if I am caged, she relaxes and simply enjoys the feeling of me being caged and has me wait a little, or immediately releases me for PIV, PIH or me masturbating with her "lending a hand".

[John]

Thanks for all that.
Even if we try just a few of your ideas we are in for a wonderful evening in front of the fire

[Locked by LRC]

Another part of the massage that we use is the face and neck. Point your fingers at each other at the center of the forehead and using the pads of the fingers, move them toward the temples. When you get there apply light pressure with your middle finger and slowly make circles in the temple's dent. After doing this a few times start from the temples and move your fingers down the sides toward the chin. Next take this same motion and extend it to the shoulders.
A masseuse that we know said that a relaxing massage starts laying face down, first the neck and shoulders, then the arms, then the back, then the legs, turn over, then the head and all the parts of the limbs you couldn't reach before and the front last.
When you are done with any limb you place your thumbs together and make your hands in to a V. Starting at the torso, apply firm pressure and push to the fingers or toes. The idea of this is that it moves the tension out of the body.

[kpb57]

Still works. Just last night we did almost everything I wrote (omitting the Tantric part), including me being caged while working her through, and then being released for the culmination.
She just needed it hard after a stressing day at the office.