Today is Wednesday 26th Feb and I'm wearing my Cobra cage as we speak. I've been locked up since last Friday 21st, with the agreement being that for hygiene and health I only unlock for a daily shower and straight back in after. So 6 days @ 24/7. Previously we have dabbled in chastity for a couple of days to a week, maybe twice last year and found those experiences to be exciting, thrilling and a massive boost to our sex and intimate times, alas ultimately I became achy and unfortunately a case of too eager too soon in terms of how long I could last, felt a bit too batter and bruised due too... our exploration of more aggressive discipline... lol buts that's a story for another blog.
I have asked my Keyholder who we will refer to as Q, if she would like to join, edit or write her own blog, so will see if this makes it out or if I get corrected in time.
So about us, a 30s - 40s couple with dependencies which doesn't leave much time or energy for play. I have definitely the more kinker tendencies, and have asked to be caged, thankfully my awesome wife is open minded and has taken up the keyholding role quite well.
Both of us are still learning and to be honest the more I read of the rest of the blogs here, the more I, and we, from me telling her about them, the more its clear that there is no one path to really follow, its a case of what works, what's interesting and see where you end up. And that's what we intend to do... could have done with grammerely for that sentence.
So where are we now... So day 5 and there have been a few risqué tasks set for me so far. I'll try and document these activates in smaller more digestible posts as time goes on, but might recap the last 5 days here to get the ball rolling.
Day 1 - I had self locked the day before, I was working at home that day and needed a rest from myself! We had talked it the day before and decided that from first thing, like 6.30am I would wear it. So yes, another day at home and yeah pretty excited being in it. Nothing much of note really the first day, by the time all home and evening routine done it was time for bed, a little light verbal teasing but that's about it.
Day 2 / 3(they really roll together sometimes) - Poor enough nights sleep but not really due to the cage, more some the dependencies getting me up! Was looking after them all day as Q was working, so didn't really have time to dwell on things. Later that night I was feeling the urges or horny or urging for something stimulating so was reading the secret to a happy marriage and found this site as well as other quizzes, we took one for fun and there was some funny exchanges and the likes, Q was super cuddly and noted I was a little more of a muted sex pest and seemed pleased by this. That made me happy to hear. That sounds worse than it was but really I found it difficult to not think about the lifestyle and want to talk about it. I restrained massively versus what I felt like talking about.
Day 4 - A work day and an in office work day. We had been talking about ways to spice things up and the Queen decided I should go to work caged and wearing one of Q's thongs!! I think my cock leapt at that! if it could it would have anyways! A black thong to be precise, not into the feminization bit , but this sounded risqué, kinky and I would definitely be thinking about her and it all day long. As a daily challenge I was also directed to take a video of me wearing the cage and thong and "make it sexy" I tried lol. Stayed in them all day.. not going to lie, something humiliatingly sexy about the experience. I was wound up about it, enjoyed it and was surprisingly leaking a bit and yet very well supported by them!! make of that what you will. That night I was rewarded with a hand job, now we are both particular beings and well normally despite her expert hand I cant finish that way, mostly a mental thing. But those 4 days of frustration and Q's dirty talk, 10 mins timer and technique blew my mind and load... she directed it at me and covered me in my own cum, quite the large amount, I was actually shaking.. definitely
Day 5 - Another work day in the office, another day in a thong, more pics for Queen. Work was fine, getting a bit better at managing going to the bathroom in a cage... think I might need to go with the cobra nub, then other times he fits just right, so will see how we go. At night I was on my way out to the gym when the Queen had just come out of the shower... I was being a bit of a brat.. hormonal, horny, you name it... but restrained myself except for asking for a taste of her... she knows I love to taste her... one thing lead to another and gave her a powerful orgasm.
While its the end of the next day, I think that enough of me trying to recollect the last couple of days. There was a lot going on in my head as well that it wouldn't do justice to try and recall the when and where of it all.
Will try and do a day after journal going forward.
Comments, thoughts and suggestions welcome
. As usual I had to have a tasty of her used pussy and other such niceties.
