Do Keyholders Work Too Hard At Chastity?

[wishful4]

This thought has crossed my mind many times. I wonder if some Keyholders out there are discouraged from keeping a chaste husband because they think it's too much work. They think each day has to be a massive production of teases and sexual activities and this puts some of them off. Many of the keyholders just don't realize how little effort is required to keep a chaste husband's arousal up, thus keeping him focused on her needs. Once I have been locked for a week or so, it simply can just take a caress, a passionate kiss, a sexy look, or some verbal teasing to keep my meter running and keep me thinking about her all day. Verbal teasing is the most effective of all. Just a small verbal demonstration that my spouse has taken ownership of my sexuality really does it for me. Telling me she owns my cock or that she is going to keep me locked for XXX period really sends my mind reeling. Does it do the same for the other chaste men out there? Does your KH complain about you being a high maintenance locked male? Are some of you lovely Keyholders out there under pressure because you think you have to constantly work and be creative to keep your chaste man entertained?

[LockedUpNewb]

The brain is the best sex organ.

I told my wife to, "f*ck my MIND". She's getting better at the verbal stuff. She's started to figured out that all she has to do to keep me locked up for a few days without any physical teasing, is talk dirty to me. And it doesn't have to be a big production either. Sometimes when I come home from work, she greets me at the door and slips one of her hands down to my crotch. She will fondle my balls and she'll always have something quick and sexy to whisper in my ear.

Some of the things she will say to me while she strokes my balls through my pants:
How are your balls today?
Did you miss me today?
Are your balls nice and full?
I'm going to unlock you tonight and make you beg me to NOT let you cum yet.
I'm going to edge you tonight. You're going to have to roll the dice to see how many edges, and then it's right back into the cage for you.
Go stuff your ass with a plug and put some lube on your cage.
Go mow the lawn.
I need you to help me dye my hair tonight.
My toenails need to be painted again. Meet me in the living room with XXX color, cotton balls and the fingernail polish remover. (I love painting her toes - she hates painting her toes -- works great!)

Just knowing that SHE is still aware of my predicament is enough to keep me going. I crave mental interaction more than physical sexual contact.

[wishful4]

The brain is the best sex organ.

Agree. It is for me , as well. When I think back to interactions between us with regard to male chastity, the things that come to mind that turned me on the most were things that she said.

For example, as we were lying in bed at night, I whined a bit that I was so horny and my cock was swelled and throbbing in the cage. She replied, "Good, just let it throb for me".
Once when I was standing behind her kissing her neck and telling her how bad I needed her, she reached her hand behind her and felt of my cage and said, " My cock is right where it needs to be".

There are many more, but I never, ever forget when she says things like that. Little things make a BIG difference.

[gummicouple]

Yes, I don't want to be bothered. My slave/husband has learned to not ask to get out of his device or for a release. I will decide when and how he gets each. I do like to send him an occasional text message to remind him of his plight.

~Alex

[Lockedchef]

Text messages are my favorite. I love when i am busy working and I get something from her out of nowhere about it.