My arrangement with my wife and I'm still masturbating HELP!

[msuguy]

I met my wife when I was 20 and I'm 38 now so we've been together in a great relationship for a long time. Even back in our early days of dating we'd play a game called BJToday? She didn't really like giving blowjobs but would give me a very "spirited" one if I was able to get a family member of hers to compliment me in some way. So if I helped her mom by mowing her lawn lets say and she mentioned how nice that was to my wife then I got a great BJ.

So recently we decided to give chastity a try. I bought it up to her and she loves the idea. It seems my sex drive is a little higher than hers. She enjoys sex about twice a week while I masturbate several times a day. 5 times is not uncommon. She didn't mind that I would masturbate but believes (and I do too) that if I didn't have that option I would be more romantic and thus she would want to have sex more often.

Anyway. So we dove into chastity and after a few false starts things are going well. We have sex at a minimum of twice a week and we re-instituted the BJToday policy which is a lot of fun as it becomes increasingly more and more difficult to get a compliment (said to the wife) from an in-law. There's also something pretty erotic knowing that her sister can be the cause of me getting to cum.

The problem I've run into though is masturbating while in chastity. I've tried a CB6000, CB6000S, jailbird, some Chinese knock off cage that's short thinking that if it was too short I wouldn't be able to cum but in all cases I've figured out how to masturbate while wearing the chastity device. I seriously cannot stop myself from doing so. Just tapping the cage for 45 minutes I can get myself to cum. Any advice on how to stop this or overcome this? Anyone else have had this problem figure out a way to stop?

Thanks!

[locknload]

Virtually any device can be defeated, so what it comes down to is willpower. You have to either desire to please her with your obedience, or at least think of the reward of the pleasure you will get from abiding by the rules. It comes down to your integrity.

[chasteboi]

One of those Kali's teeth rings attached around your penis before it is locked in its cage should do the trick.