Well, I did it

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southdak
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Well, I did it

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I've lurked here for quite some time, learning a lot in the forum and elsewhere online.

I began chatting with my potential KH several months ago and we met each other shortly after that. Over those months, we got to know each other as friends and sincerely enjoyed hanging out with each other doing non sexual things like lunch, movies, shopping, etc.

It all led to tonight. I am finally locked up. The agreement is that either of us have the chance to call a "game over" at the end of this month. If I request unlocking before that time, I will have to earn it based on my KH requests, so there is an added element of control.

I have no idea where this is going to lead, but I'm sitting here locked up for the first time in my life. I hope it is as good of an experience as I have fantasized about.
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Well, yes you did it, and you have "lurked here for quite some time" but did you read the rules about first posting on the "Hello World Thread"?
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Forum etiquette aside ( :roll: ) I'm interested in how you view this relationship now you are having kinky non-sex with this person and how it will develop from being founded on kink.
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locked4her55 wrote:Well, yes you did it, and you have "lurked here for quite some time" but did you read the rules about first posting on the "Hello World Thread"?
Actually, the only rule is "Don't be a dick", the others are just suggestions. It is nice to make an introduction but not required. The main reason for doing so as a lurker is so your account doesn't get deleted. Accounts with 0 posts get deleted on a semi-regular basis.
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southdak
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Sorry for not posting in the "hello world" thread. I knew I was supposed to and told myself to do it but then forgot :(

The first 24 hours has been pretty uneventful. The device fits great, no pinching, chafing, etc. It's actually quite comfortable. I worked on my feet all day with really no problems at all. Last night I slept okay - woke up twice with my penis trying to get hard.

My KH has checked in with me, and all is well.

I will keep this thread updated.

Sorry again for not following the forum decorum :(
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southdak wrote:Sorry for not posting in the "hello world" thread. I knew I was supposed to and told myself to do it but then forgot :((
No Biggie :) Welcome to the Forum
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southdak, welcome to the forum and the world of chastity.

Living in lockup isn't as easy for most of us as the fantasies make it out to be. Sleeping took some real practice for me, and I found that different lotion (instead of lube) at night, and sleeping on my side with a pillow under my knee helped a great deal.

Good luck with it all, and have fun!
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I found the device I'm in (cb600Ks) amazingly comfortable when I first put it on too. My KH kept saying it looked really uncomfortable, and that I didn't have to do this if I didn't want to. As I grew use to it, changed base ring/spacer sizes, at times I would chaff, or a ball would slip out, but that was just matter of finding the right size combination. Took some time and lube but it worked out. KH still doesn't believe it's comfortable, though she really doesn't care if it is either ;). In fact I really find things uncomfortable when it's off.
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How are you getting on with it, I too have been locked up but my wife is not teasing or anything bit she is loving the extra work i am doing around the house ?