TIPS AND SUGGESTIONS WELCOME!

Living the real life under lock and key
mysissyboi-1026
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TIPS AND SUGGESTIONS WELCOME!

Post by mysissyboi-1026 »

We are new to chastity lifestyle, and just looking for some tips from experienced members. I am his mistress and kh, he is my little sissyboi who loves to cross-dress and be my pretty little s*ut. We have been together 5 years, and our kinks have expanded and grown over that period of time. We consider ourselves extremely lucky in the fact that NO subject is off limits when it comes to our fantasies/kinks, and we have had alot of fun exploring our fantasies. Male chastity has basically been the seemingly natural next step in our dom/sub relationship. We just got our device yesterday, and did not have too much difficulty putting it on for the first time. He slept in it with no problem, and is at work now safely locked away in it! He has been a habitual masturbator (at least once per day) since age 12, so the fact that I am now in control of his pleasure is one of the most exciting parts of this for us. A few of my questions to those of you with experience, is: How long should he stay locked up in the beginning? Should this be a gradual progression? Will he have issues with skin irritation? Looking forward to any and all information/experience everyone can provide to us! Thank you!
ManIntights
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Re: TIPS AND SUGGESTIONS WELCOME!

Post by ManIntights »

He should take time to get use to his chastity device, making sure of the correct fitting, his body will adjust to it.
Also remember who is in charge, don't let him tell you what he wants.
all41
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Re: TIPS AND SUGGESTIONS WELCOME!

Post by all41 »

If something is irritating you take it off for inspection. Talk to him. see if different combos would help . Hygene is important. Don't let him get away with anything. But talk to him once or twice a day to make sure he is still ok

As for lock up and denial time do what Sarah says TALK to him and ask him how long he thinks he can go with out a release then double it! Now that does not mean you cant play with him it just means he is not going to have a release for that many days or weeks or months or years wow scratch that last part.

When you double it it will strike fear in his heart (With a rush of endorphins)
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Aarkey
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Re: TIPS AND SUGGESTIONS WELCOME!

Post by Aarkey »

@OP - A few years ago I started an FAQ for folks who are new to male chastity. Hope it helps:
http://www.aarkey.info/chas/
"Some people need to be caged before they can be free." - Anon