Does Chastity Affect the Way You Think?

[Anymouse]

I've noticed that long-term chastity (defined by Miss BethK and me as she gets to have O's and I do not).

Each period of chastity has been longer than the last. The current one started September 10, 2012. Miss Beth says she will permit me an O on Valentine's Day, but carefully left out the year.

The longer I go without an O, the more I find I think about both sex and pleasing Miss Beth (in ways both including sex and outside sex).

And my body responds differently to teasing, particularly since I have been teased so many times in the last five months yet left without release. It is almost as if my body is retraining: that it anticipates pleasure from teasing, rather than the Big O. (In truth, the tease, which lasts so much longer than the grand finale, is more fun.)

With my birthday coming in a few months, I revealed to Miss Beth I would like one of those fancy Neosteel chastity belts. The kind suitable for permanent wear. (The Avenger is okay but because of its construction does require a break from time-to-time. As it is an "off-the-shelf" sort of belt, it is not constructed to your exact body specifications, though for the price I would highly recommend it, particularly for someone experimenting with the idea of a belt-style chastity device.)

Now before I married Miss Beth, I could not even conceive of a chastity device for myself. (I'd seen a mediæval chastity belt for men at the Cluny Museum of the Middle Ages in Paris, but did not imagine myself in one. Now I cannot imagine myself without one.)

So this chastity thing has certainly changed the way I think about sex.

What say you?

[Linus]

Good survey.
One more question should have been 'ask my KH'.
Because in MC lifestyle, my opinion has no value at all!