Behavior Modification

[Cosmo]

I'm curious as to any behavior modification you KH has imposed. This could include daily chores or perhaps grooming or anything else you are required to do that is out of the ordinary but related to play. Along the same lines I wonder if anyone has been sent to beauty or massage classes or the like to better serve his KH. I've always had the fantasies but never enjoyed the reality.

[Chuck]

Nah. Sorry, I can't help you on that. My wife/kh likes my behavior. That's kind of why she married me.

[Anomaly]

I have to stay off my phone/tablet more and help her out around the house and with kids or I don't get anything.

[luckylocked]

I would preface this by saying I probably didn't pull my weight around the house as much as I could have previously. Since being locked up, I do nearly all the laundry, I already did all the cooking but I now do the dishes after so that once the kids are in bed she is officially off the clock. I don't drop into the pub after work nearly as much, I would much rather go home and see her. I make the bed every morning and I put all her clothes away every night after work. I now know how to wash and hang all her clothes and I know where everything goes.

BUT, none of this was demanded of me. This was something I wanted to do to make her happy and to make up for 20 years of not doing as much as I could. There is also the great benefit of by me doing these things, she is freed up to do the detail stuff that I remain crap at. Not to say that from time to time she doesn't take the odd liberty and have a sleep or read a book while I am busy, and that to me is a pretty big turn on anyway.

I still don't clean bathrooms

[locked4her55]

I'm also more helpful around the house but our main issue was masturbation. I'm retired and she still works so it was very easy to just "take things into my own hands" so to speak. Then later if she was up for it I usually wasn't. Now I'm always ready when she wants. She tells me "I'm more focused"

[wishful4]

I'm also more helpful around the house but our main issue was masturbation. I'm retired and she still works so it was very easy to just "take things into my own hands" so to speak. Then later if she was up for it I usually wasn't. Now I'm always ready when she wants. She tells me "I'm more focused"

Ditto!! I continue to be amazed at how this little device changes my behavior.

[ME's_hubby]

We have always had an equal relationship, and I think I have done a pretty fair share of the chores around the house. Since we started with MC I've found that I'm more attentive to her needs and that I end up doing things for her, not because she demands it just because it feels good to do stuff for her. The change might not be to big in this area for us since i already was doing my share around the house. The more important change that MC brought for us is the increased intimacy and open communication about feelings and sex.

[finallyhappy]

Here's another vote for no demands but it sure does motivate you to be more pro-active at making her happy.

[Starr]

I have to stay off my phone/tablet more and help her out around the house and with kids or I don't get anything.

Yeah, you're suppose to anyway lol

[celticqueens_sub]

I live in a D/s FLM so I have very clear goals and expectations set for me that I must adhere to, but this has nothing to do with MC specifcally. CQ just uses MC to add a level of control that she enjoys. MC is just part of the proicess of making our life together work giving us both what we need and desire.