One of those days I guess.

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grubber
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One of those days I guess.

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Having one of those days that I'm sure that others have experienced. My KH has been making me wait regularly for 3 month periods for an orgasm with plenty of unlocking and teasing without any kind of release in between. And it has been fantastic for the both of us. The past couple of months on orgasm day, she ruined my orgasms and quite well I have to say. She has become quite good at it and I am only able to squeeze out 2 or 3 drops at best. I am not complaining one bit about it because I get hornier than all giddy-up afterwards for a few days. Way more than a full blown orgasm.
However, after the last ruined orgasm, she never set an orgasm day for my next release. It has been a couple of months and no mention of it. Nor do I dare to ask. During this time she hasn't unlocked me for teasing sessions and has barely acknowledged that I am locked up. Maybe it's a different form of teasing without my knowing about it. Everything in the household is the same. We still exchange plenty of hugs and kisses and going out on date nights etc. I am going to be patient to see where this is going.
However, today for some reason, I am hornier than I think I have ever been. It won't go away. I settle down for a little bit and then I am as hard as I can get again with my balls aching. Hell, I'd fuck anything right now if I could. While driving my car I am getting extremely aroused. It's been like that all day at the office so far too. Just the site of another women is getting me going. I have even been surfing porn sites which I haven't done in a while and that's been making things worse. I can't stop looking at it. Every time I do, I just keep going back. I have had a bulge in my pants all day. I probably wouldn't mind it so much if I was home, but I am in contact with people in and out of the office on a regular basis. I just want to rip this cage off and jerk myself silly. I am almost afraid to go home to her because I think I will be a little out of control with my KH and under her terms, I am never to initiate any sexual advances whatsoever. I'd settle for a little physical teasing from her at this point.
Thanks for the venting. At least it's some kind of release. I'm sure (I hope) by tomorrow, I'll be back to just the plain old horniness that comes from chastity.
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However, today for some reason, I am hornier than I think I have ever been. It won't go away. I settle down for a little bit and then I am as hard as I can get again with my balls aching. Hell, I'd fuck anything right now if I could. While driving my car I am getting extremely aroused. It's been like that all day at the office so far too. Just the site of another women is getting me going. I have even been surfing porn sites which I haven't done in a while and that's been making things worse. I can't stop looking at it. Every time I do, I just keep going back. I have had a bulge in my pants all day. I probably wouldn't mind it so much if I was home, but I am in contact with people in and out of the office on a regular basis. I just want to rip this cage off and jerk myself silly.
Deliciously frustrating. I get that way a lot. I think driving is the worst, because the mind has so much opportunity to wander.
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Whatever the rules of your game, I would at the very least ask her if anything is wrong. Withdrawal can be a symptom of many problems and ignoring it (for any reason) is never a good thing. I try not to let any change of behaviour go unremarked upon for longer than a week and moreso if I can't fathom its origin.

If she is just 'drying you out' you should be told. Your rules sound similar enough to ours for me to understand the dynamic but I'd risk upsetting her to find out if anything is wrong. Who knows? She may just be doing it to see how long it takes you to ask!
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grubber
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I have to say that I was hoping to more calmed down than yesterday. I'm actually hornier than I was yesterday but it feels different today. It is more intense. I have been harder more often and for longer periods. I am very self conscious because the bulge in my pants is extremely obvious. I swear that the women in the office have taken notice. I don't know how they couldn't notice.
I am pretty sure there is nothing more to this than my mistress is using a different approach to arousing me. Last night when I got home, she had dinner all ready and was wearing a somewhat revealing outfit as she has been for the past several weeks at times. I wanted to jump all over her and I think she could tell from the obvious bulge. I kept myself on my best behavior. We did our usual hugging and kissing and then I drew a bath for her and cleaned up the dishes. When we went to bed, I gave her a nice body massage and many kisses all over. She was in her glory. Sometimes she likes this better than any sexual contact. She then caressed me all over except for any touching of my swollen purple cock and balls, but she definitely noticed them. She told me how much she loves me and how I have been such a good boy. However, she never mentioned anything about this new deal she is putting me through. I tried very subtly to see if she would say anything, but I did not get any kind of response, so I didn't push it.

I have always been hornier since being chaste, but if she trying to get me hornier, I have to say that it is working all to well. This is at a level that I never could have imagined I could ever be at. She has always loved to see me frustrated. That's why I have only been getting ridiculously weak ruined orgasms instead of real orgasms on the past few dates for me to get a release because she knows how horny they get me. I actually love this level I am at even though it is frustrating.. I just wish that there was a way to hide the bulge in my pants. It's humiliating. But then again, my mistress likes that too.
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I have found that there are some days where I am significantly more horny than others and it doesn't always relate to what my wife/KH is doing to me. I think that when I have erotic dreams, even if I don't remember them, the next day is more frustrating (in a good way).
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I got to this point for the first time the other day, and found I can get myself off while in my CB6000s. I used a combo of prostrate stimulation and sort of wiggling the device and I achieved orgasm. It was a bit of a let down to learn I could still get myself off, but the device is still a major game changer.

For example, I used to masturbate at work about 4 days a week. I would spend my lunch break watching porn and then go into the bathroom and rub one out quickly- say 1- 3 minutes. With my device this is no longer possible.

just thought I'd share - keep us updated, I enjoy your posts.
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grubber
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Looks like I am going to have several "one of those days" , probably even worse, unless I can figure out how to control it. It has been like this for the past couple of days and now I know that she is just experimenting with another form of teasing and frustration with a new added element of humiliation.
I got home last night after work and found my wife/mistress with her girlfriend on the back porch having drinks and enjoying the wonderful weather we have been having in New England. I greeted the both of them and gave my wife a hug and a kiss. We then proceeded to have some small talk. I noticed that the both of them looking at the bulge in my crotch and they were quite obvious about it. This was making me get harder to the point that I had to excuse myself so I could make dinner. As I walked into the kitchen I could hear them giggling. I went about preparing dinner and could hear them talking and giggling but could not make out the conversation. I was getting more and more embarrassed. Once dinner was ready, I invited her friend to stay but she declined. She said that she had to go home and get dinner ready for her husband and how lucky my wife is that I do this for her. After she left, we had dinner and went about our nightly routines.
My mistress then went to bed to read while I took a shower. When I got into the bedroom, she was laying there naked reading her book while just gently rubbing the front of her crotch. I climbed in beside her and snuggled real close. She proceeded to grab my hand and brought it to her crotch without ever stopping reading her book. While I was gently rubbing her, without ever taking her face out from behind the book, she commented on the bulge I had when talking to her and her friend. I told her that I have been like this all day for the past four days and how embarrassing it's been. She giggled and told me that it's not her problem and that I have to learn to control myself. She then told me that she told her friend about me. I was already leaking precum profusely before she told me. I thought I was going to explode as I could feel this weird rush of excitement go through me. The first thing I did was grab the book out of her hands so I could look at her. I think the first words out of my mouth were something like "You did what?" I couldn't believe she did that. She said that she felt like she had to because her girlfriend was pestering her about it. She said that I have nothing to worry about. If you knew girlfriend, you know that it won't be long before all her friends know. and their husbands and boyfriends, etc. I started to protest but she quickly shut me up by telling me that it would be long, long time before she touches me again never mind how long before another orgasm. I still wanted to argue but I knew better. After all, I was the one who requested chastity in the first place. She then pushed me down between her legs. She had two good orgasms. She then proceeded to caress and tease me all over without ever touching any sexual parts once again. When she rolled over to go to sleep. I snuggled up against her. She fell asleep rather quickly. I layed there forever, throbbing and thinking about her telling her friend about me. It's kind of exciting that somebody else but it's also scary at the same time.
This may sound ridiculous, but this morning, I am hornier and more aroused than than I was that past four days. I think my dick is going to have permanent grooves in it from the constant straining in my cage. I feel that with just the slightest touch I will start leaking more than precum . I still can't believe she told her friend. My brain is scrambling now about how to deal with everybody knowing. So now I know that my mistress is pushing me to my limits. (Perhaps beyond). Getting my mistress to come out of her sexual shell and me wanting to be in a heightened level of arousal is what I was hoping for when I approached her about chastity, but I never expected to see her take it to this level, nor did I expect to be this aroused and frustrated. How better/worse can she/this get? Is or has anyone else out there been through this or worse? I'm barely able to think straight now, I don't think I can take it anymore intensely than I'm at already.
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Just wanted to report that I am much better today, Have been since last night. Back to just a heightened level of horniness, and thinking about my wonderful mistress all the time. I give her a lot of credit for the way she is handling me. I couldn't ask for better. It's almost like she wrote the book on chastity and denial.

Yesterday was a busy day for me working around the house. Had to unload approx 2 cord of wood off the back porch and re-stack it in the back yard. The weather here in New England was so mild this winter that I didn't need all that I loaded on the porch in the fall. Then I cleaned and set up the porch for summer installing screens, getting out the grill etc. All in all I was very busy and very tired and sore after wards. I noticed that being this busy and physical took the edge off my horniness big time. What a relief.
I later washed up a little bit, cooked dinner and then took a shower. My wonderful mistress came into the bedroom just before I got dressed and offered me a massage. I never refuse on of those. I jumped on the bed immediately. My mistress oiled me up and massaged my back . It felt so good on my sore muscles. She then had me roll over to do my front. As she was rubbing me she asked me if I calmed down about her telling her friend about me. I acknowledged that I had no other choice but to accept it. She laughed and told me that she never did tell her friend and that this is always going to be our little secret. She just wanted to see my reaction to see if it would make me more aroused. She also confessed that she has not been paying attention to me on purpose. She wants to see how long I can go without any sexual arousal by her either by talking about me being caged or touching my genitals. She also said that she does not want to set a date, at least not for a while, she will know when the time is right for me. She also praised me for being so well behaved about her neglect and that she has been very surprised I have lasted this long without saying anything. The best part is that she told me that I will be well rewarded when she is ready. So I am glad I have been patient, although a little on the crazy side. She is wonderful, isn't she?

Curiousnotgeorge: First off, congratulations on the twins. There's no greater gift life. You seem like a good man. I'm glad to hear that you are not pestering your wife. She is going through serious hormonal and mental changes. Most women lose interest in sex at this point. She will most likely not have any drive for a while after birth either. These beautiful new babies suck the life out you guys as infants, especially with 2 for mommy. Lack of sleep and constant demand for her by them will beat her down. Chastity may not be the ideal thing for the both of you for a while. That's not a bad thing by any means. It's only a game. You can always resume play at a later date when the time is right. Once again, congrats! and Bravo on your behavior with her.
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