To those that can escape

[curioustncpl]

Congrats to you. I tried this morning while cleaning. I was already given permission to unlock for a cleaning. For giggles, I tried to pull out first and I could not slide out. I guess I'm just too large to get it all the way out. Needless to say, I will never actually try to sneak out of my cage ever because I know I will get caught. If I were to manage to pull all the way out, I'm sure I'd never get back in the cage. I have to use the sock method to get in properly anyways. So, lucky you if you can escape. I can't, and I'm actually very pleased that I can't. It confirms that my wife now owns my cock and my orgasms completely. I just can't wait until we save up for a metal device that won't require cleaning every 2-4 days.

[hot_toddy_dog]

To those that can't escape:

You just haven't figured out how to do it yet. Maybe you can't do it dry. Shower and soap will teach you.

[Atone]

yeah, don't try any more. No good will come from it.

I am sure I could pull out of my Steelheart but I would be in a sorry state if I did. First, my testicles hang very high so the pressure on them is unbearable (I did this once in a similar situation, allowed out, wanted to try it) especially once I start to get aroused. I thought I was going to pass out, it was that painful. Second, I would have a really hard time getting back in. Unlike some of my other devices I think I probably could get back in but it would be very difficult and take a long time. If I used the penis plug fixing it would be impossible to get back in, I am positive.

[poor]

Similar themed thread in the 'Devices' forum:
http://chastityforums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=14452

[curioustncpl]

I was in the shower with lots of soap, very slick soap. And not to worry, I won't be trying that again. I was just curious. There's no need for me to escape anyways.

[celticqueens_sub]

I never understand these threads... If you want to escape, or try. Why wear a device?

[poor]

Before I wised up, it was about proving the probity of the device. I wanted to be in something that would absolutely deny me any sexual relief. The fact that I was self-locking and masturbating about being locked up didn't seem in the slightest bit ironic to me back then.

[curioustncpl]

for me, it was after reading about people always pulling out, whether on purpose or accident. I thought, I'm getting out right now anyways, I'm gonna try it. It would reassure me and my wife that I can't get out without her unlocking me. And, well, I guess my cock is just too large to pull out of this device. I'm thankful for that. I know that unless I break the CB or cut the lock, which I would never do, there's no escaping for me. And I like it that way. There's no chance of me cheating, even if i wanted to.

[TwistedMister]

I never understand these threads... If you want to escape, or try. Why wear a device?

For some of us, there is an added eroticism from knowing that you can't get out without being unlocked by the KH (short of damaging the device or lock). It's about power and control.

We aren't all the same, it's a sliding scale. Some people are willingly and completely submissive and, for them, merely being *told* what to do (or not do) is sufficient. At the other end of the scale are those people who may not be [completely, or completely willingly] submissive and whose desire is *forced* control, a lack of choice, inescapable bondage, consensual non-consent, etc.

I am one of those who fall to the far right of the scale- *forced* control, etc. Normally, I am most definitely *not* submissive- Even as a young child I revolted against 'authority' (or those who *presumed* to have authority over me) and I have a bit of a masochistic streak as well. As you can no doubt imagine, these characteristics tended to result in a certain amount of conflict at home and in school, I was a rebellious little bastard. After entering the military, and rapidly gaining rank, responsibility and power I experienced the other side of the coin, and became accustomed to giving orders and expecting to be obeyed without question.

However, when it comes to women and matters sexual, I find it extremely erotic to be in a position of having no control, of being forced to do things and behave in ways that I ordinarily would not. If I know that I can 'slip out' and not be caught, the eroticism is significantly diminished. Tom's 'willing suspension of disbelief' is not sufficient- I *need* to *know* that I cannot get out without her unlocking me, that's how this kink works for me. (Yes, I know that tools would get me out...but our rules provide a certain deterrent against that.)

Does this help you understand the mindset a little better?

[jeank]

It is a strange one and all in the mind.

It doesn't actually matter whether I can pull out or not, because I wouldn't - a matter of honour as much as anything.
For that matter I may as well have the key with me all the time. I wouldn't use it, as I've given my word not to.

BUT (yes that's a big "but"

I find it much more erotic knowing I can't just unlock myself because I don't have access to an unsecured key, and although I could get out of my device as I'm not pierced, over time I've found a configuration of sizing which means it would not be easy without a lot of planning and especially not easy to get back in.

So I feel it's secure, which hugely adds to my feeling of being under her control.

I imagine I'd have a different perspective if I was a self-locker and my being kept in chastity was not a facet of my relationship with Mrs KH.
In fact, musing on that, I think in that circumstance I'd probably have a PA by now.....