[MaybeDeniedHusband] Like I'm On Drugs

[MaybeDeniedHusband]

Sorry if I overimpose here just tell me to stay out and I will.

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Keep it up. Life is good.

Not at all, you're god. I appreciate the perspective. You're right, given everything going on, it's incredible how far we've come in, like, a month. It's pretty amazing in the middle of it, just so hard to wrap my brain around. The funny thing for me is that chastity is not at all what I'd fantasized it would be. It's so much more complex and interesting than that. I'm enjoying the ride.

[Mr Pickle]

My advice with websites and reads for wives.. a big no.
Wives dont like to be told what to do with their husbands or that they might do this and that. All they see is "You are doing
it wrong" or " we know your husband better than you".

The reality is; small steps in her own time. If it takes years it takes years. Let her go at her own pace, learn at her own pace.
We did the seven day method for years, maybe two weeks as a bonus treat for me. Then. For god knows what reason my wife decided six weeks was fine and coming for me wasn't all that important.
They just go when ready. Never when pushed.
Go with the flow. Small steps.

[Tongue+groove]

Go with the flow. Small steps.

Well said sir,!!!!!!!!

[MaybeDeniedHusband]

After the convo last week, the wife/KH was on board with letting me go a bit longer between orgasms this time. She let me cum last Friday and then said my next opportunity would be this thursday, Maybe. I kinda feel like she's going to go for a ruin, given how much she's been talking about them. She also bought like $100 worth of toys and "lube blankets". The package of toys arrived today but Im not allowed to open it. Am very excited about tonight. From what I can tell, the toys are mostly for her--she's said the biggest impediment to keeping me locked longer is that she really likes something inside her. So I'm assuming thats what she got.

Despite me not cumming, we've been having a ton of sex. She's been really into not letting me finish, she loves how squirmy and snuggly I get after.

The other thing that's surprising is how much she's gotten into taking 'ownership' of my penis. To the point where, when I've been unlocked for sex or cleaning, she's not letting me touch it myself. Aside from a couple fingers to move my dick around while shaving last night, I haven't actually touched my own cock in like a week. It's a real headfuck, and when she does touch it, I get hard in about .3 seconds. It's like middle-school level instant boner for me. I've been loving it, to the point where I kinda want her to take over the shaving, too, and just never touch my own dick with my hands. Never thought I'd be so close to achieving that one after just a month or whatever.

We're taking small steps, but we're taking a lot of them, pretty quickly. It's been amazing.

[Tongue+groove]

Despite me not cumming, we've been having a ton of sex. She's been really into not letting me finish

Piv edging is awesome. I love it and hate it both.

[MaybeDeniedHusband]

Despite me not cumming, we've been having a ton of sex. She's been really into not letting me finish

Piv edging is awesome. I love it and hate it both.

She's been cumming so hard when we do it. And then she finishes and climbs off and sees the look on my face and she's so goddamn satisfied and pleased with herself. It's amazing. Makes me ache and want her more.

[MaybeDeniedHusband]

Brief update today after playtime last night... she got a combo insertable vibrating egg/vibrating remote to play with. She put it in herself, then really explored what the new toy can do. We made out, she touched herself with it, I touched her with it, she touched me. She put it on top of my cage and rode me for awhile. I started humping back at her, I couldn't get close enough to her, I was desperate.

And the fucking look on her face. Laughing like I was a rambunctious puppy. Not that she's been anything like apathetic, but the sheer *glee* in her eyes really surprised me. And scared me.

She eventually unlocked me, fucked me, didn't let me cum, made me watch as she got herself off, then relocked me.

Today isn't my longest time without an O, but it's getting close. But it's definitely the most horny and desperate I've felt. It's kind of amazing. I've gotten so much done just trying to distract myself.

[Tongue+groove]

. sheer *glee* in her eyes really surprised me. And scared me.

I’ve seen that look. The only way to see it is to lock up.

made me watch as she got herself off,

I could watch Mrs. G do this all day. She saves it for the most special of occasions.

[MaybeDeniedHusband]

So the day after my last post, she let me cum while we were fucking, and then told me not to expect to cum for a week. She wanted to at least tie my own self-record of going 8 days without cumming. And she tied it, sort of. But that's jumping ahead.

The night after she let me cum, we fooled around again. I find sexy times the day after cumming really helps shorten the drop for me. We were doing some kissing and touching and then, out of nowhere, she told me to lie on my back and spread my cheeks. For the first time, she played with my butt a little. Put a plug in me and then had me go down on her for awhile. I've done buttplay on my own but never with her, and man... it was intense. Felt amazing. She kept me locked Saturday, we didn't play Sunday, and then Monday, my shaft ring arrived from K3d and she wanted to test it out.

The sex we had on Monday was, frankly, some of the best sex we've ever had as a couple. She plugged me again, I went down on her, she unlocked the cage and put the ring on. The sex was slow and sensual and she came a few times and it was just fantastic. She, of course, didn't let me cum. We both talked about how awesome it was the next day. This chastity game has been such a game-changer in our intimacy. We're both way more open and comfortable with ourselves and what we want.

We played a few more times during the week. Some unlocked, some locked. Plugged every time.

Friday night, we were organizing our new sex-toy box and I showed her the prostate stimulator I'd purchased a couple years ago. Bigger than the little plug she'd been using. I bought it on the recommendation of a physical therapist who I was seeing for prostate floor issues (which turned out to be a kidney stone--nevermind, unrelated). Anyway, the wife told me to try that toy out, and we fucked again. She came, and let me keep going and I was so close... and then she pulled off. And just fucking laughed. And then let me calm down, rode me some more, didn't let me cum, and rolled off to clean up and sleep. It was one of the most frustrating and sexy things I've experienced. Until...

Saturday. During the day, she picked up a leather strap-on harness from a local store (though the toys she bought wouldn't be arriving on time that day). At night, she modeled it without a toy in it and god is she fucking hot. Just makes me drool looking at her. She decided to order more lube and was on all fours. I kissed her all over and ended up behind her, humping her fantastic ass while caged, kissing her. I get so desperate and she's found that she *loves* how moany and horny I get when I hump her caged. And then, she had me roll over on my back again and brought out her new gloves. Black nitrile gloves, very medical, harsh. With the harness, it's really hot. She doesn't want to touch my butt directly, but she had no problem lubing up a finger and shoving it in me. A little harder than I'd have preferred, actually, which she thought was kinda funny. It's so strange seeing my sweet wife take such glee in being a little mean to be. But god, it's so hot.

She fingered my ass a bit, she put the medium plug in. She rode my face for awhile. One thing that was unusual... she had to pee in the middle so she hopped off, but she came right back and sat on my face after. She's said a few times that pee play is off-limits for her, which is fine, but I wouldn't mind it. So when she came right back and I could kinda taste it on her... fuck that made me feel so subby.

While she was riding my face, she unlocked my cage, but waited a bit before taking it off. We fucked for awhile, I had to pause a few times not to cum. She came--hard--and I kept fucking her. I didn't know if she wanted to beat the record. But she was smiling down at me like she was waiting for something, so I fucked her harder, told her I was close to cumming. She whispered in my ear "Do it, cum in me." That made sense. She tied the record, we talked about how generally midweek orgasms are harder for me. So I thrust in, I groaned, got one good spurt--

And she jumped off. Ruined the orgasm. My body was shaking. I took about ten seconds to catch my breath and then just laughed, uncontrollably. Like, not a conscious reaction, I couldn't stop it. There was all this... feeling, buzzing in my body that I couldn't get rid of. I felt a little relief from the horniness but not at all what I thought I was getting 30 seconds earlier.

It took me awhile to calm myself down after that. Made for a rough night sleeping, especially with the time change.

I don't think I like ruined orgasms as a regular thing, I'd rather just be fully denied. But fuck, it's an effective tool. I can never fully trust the orgasm until it's really happening.

It's funny, we talked on Friday about how things are going and she said that she's been cumming so much that the orgasms are losing a little luster for her. She likes teasing me, but then she gets horny when I get horny and she wants me to make her cum. We've both been having so much fun that we're playing almost every night (to the detriment of staying up-to-date on our TV shows). So we still need to find a rhythm that works for us. Im not the only one who has to work on delayed gratification a little bit. More importantly, my wife has just been gleefully trying out every new thing she can think of. We're closer than we've been in maybe ever.