Length of Chastity, let faith decide?

[WilliamK]

My lovely wife Karen recently agreed to keep me more often in chastity. But she has no clue on the length, so we are searching for a good way to help her decide. I am now only locked for just over a day and she feels sorry for me already. We used Carlilock.com for the locking period but she has the emergency code, and if I beg hard enough I guess she will let me out before, which off course I will regret.
Is anyone of you using a method, like throwing dice? Or throwing a dart on a calender?

How can we be sure we stick to the the amount of days?
Thanks for your help and suggestions...
Karen and William

[Tom Allen]

I see Karen and William, but I haven't figured out what Faith has to do with it. Is she a friend of yours?

[LockedUp24]

Must be a miss print....Faith or Fate.


Anyway start off small a few hours here and there and gradually increase and increase.

My KH likes me Locked in only at home but sometimes she likes it Fulltime=Work and at home.

I dont really mind as its more of a Kinky game for us but i think at some point she will want it Fulltime so i try to practise that idea when possible.

Currently my KH wants 1 month before im allowed to Orgasm.

[WilliamK]

Thanks for the responses. English is not my first language...it has to be fate off course!

[cagedog]

We started with things like dice and such but have migrated to what I think many others have - you come out and cum when she says.

[wishful4]

It could be that she feels guilty denying you. Many women do in the beginning. If she wants you locked for a specific period of time, using a game of some sort to determine whether or not you are released keeps her from having to say no to you until she can strengthen her resolve.

[Michele]

I wrote about that guilt in the beginning. I agree, cards, dice or random number generator can be a huge help in the beginning. Also her learning that she can still release you but not allow you to cum. In the beginning a lot of us women think chastity and denial have to go hand in hand but you can have both or one, it's still fun and still frustrating

[sherulestherooster]

When we were first starting out, we rolled a die and I couldn't come until she had had that many orgasms. I still think that's a great way to play, the focus being on her pleasure instead of chronological days of male chastity. I do think this took a little pressure off her in the beginning. But as she got more comfortable with denying me, she liked the idea that she was more in charge rather than the die roll.

[WilliamK]

Hi.. thanks for sharing the experiences and great tips.. I am sure Karen will like the idea of having the length of my chastity decided by the amount of her orgasms..

[Len51]

Either you want to be in chastity or you do not. Letting chance set the date is not going to change anything. You still will want to be let out and your girlfriend still will feel sorry for you. Sometimes we fall in love with a fantasy but the reality is not like we pictured. I fantasize about a lot of things that I do not like to do in real life. Nothing wrong with that.

I think most of us want to be in chastity. There is no one that can force you to be in chastity. I am starting my second month of no orgasms and I can ask my wife to release me and she will, but I don't because I want to be in chastity and I do not pretend anyone else is forcing me.

There are plenty of games online, wheels to spin and dice to throw. We tried them in the beginning as do many of us. The problem is that chastity is about you and her so letting chance have the final say does not meet your needs or hers. It takes the control completely away from her and does nothing to cool your desire to cum.

My wife used to feel sorry for me. Now I feel sorry for me because my wife would love if I never had an orgasm again. First off you need to decide if chastity is what you want. If it is then you have to have the will power to remain in chastity for some length of time so that your girlfriend can see that you can take it and nothing bad will happen. She also needs to be told that when you say yes, you mean no. I sat my wife down and told her that when I begged her to release me, I actually wanted her to say no and that saying no would please me and saying yes would not. Your girlfriend wants to please you so let her know that letting you cum early does not please you except for the brief time you have an orgasm.

Good luck and take it by baby steps.