How do you feel about receiving oral sex?

Happily caged · Post by **Happily caged** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 9:16 am

I am indifferent to it and would accept it only if she enjoyed it. Since she is indifferent to it too and would give me it only if she thought I enjoyed it, the result is that I never get it. I have never before read of a man who is indifferent to oral sex, though I imagine there might be others beside me.
How do you feel about receiving oral sex?

Happily caged · Post by **Happily caged** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 9:22 am

I do enjoy giving it though and she enjoys receiving it.
I'm sure I could climax to it no problem if she enjoyed it, but I am just interested in it for its own sake, only if it pleased her.

Post by **TwistedMister** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 9:53 am

I *love* a good BJ. I'd say that I even love a *bad* BJ, but any BJ is a *good* BJ...but she *has* to swallow, spitting is NOT an option.

Grizzly228 · Post by **Grizzly228** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 10:20 am

Love it! But it is a skill. Not every woman is good at it

rickiee_2002 · Post by **rickiee_2002** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 10:55 am

I enjoy it. I don't receive it ... sometimes, teasingly, she will suck me through my cage ... but it's not designed for enjoyment ... just frustration.

Happily caged · Post by **Happily caged** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 11:15 am

I should clarify that it has nothing to do with whether she is good at it or not, or whether I can orgasm to it, but rather just that unless I know she enjoys it (and she has honestly said she is indifferent to it), then I just lose interest in asking for it myself, and am quite happy with going without.

Len51 · Post by **Len51** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 2:47 pm

My wife loves to do oral to tease me. She talks about how good it will feel for a long time while teasing me with her hand and then most times, finally does it but stops before I can cum. It is the best teasing technique she uses and I both love it and dread it.

Before last year, oral sex was my only sex. We have not had intercourse in about 30 years or so. I probably had oral more than most men and if I may brag a little, that was with my wife and her long time girlfriend so double the fun.

Oral sex replaced intercourse as the main form of reaching orgasm. Once in a while I got release by hand, but with two women, one was always up for oral. How I went from too many orgasms to none is still a mystery to me. I am thinking that having no orgasms is so opposite of what I did, that it feels very kinky to me now.

A year ago I would be calling myself stupid for giving up orgasms. Now I do not want them anymore and feel relieved.

LockedUp24 · Post by **LockedUp24** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 4:09 pm

We are very similar to some of you.
I love recieving a BJ and it used to happen quite often but these days it's rare and if I do get one in caged or a surprise gift but all oral is given to my Wife/kh a few times a week.

reeve · Post by **reeve** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 4:29 pm

I love it but it's very rare I get it

Happily caged · Post by **Happily caged** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 5:24 pm

Hmmm... A man who is indifferent to receiving oral. I should get my head checked. Just kidding, I know: to each his own.

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