Yesterday was the one year anniversary of chastity play. On that day last year I asked my wife to take control of my orgasms. She agreed to a one year trial period to see if both of us liked it before making it our lifestyle.
Yesterday we made it our lifestyle and I was told to buy a custom chastity cage that I could wear 24/7 that allowed me to feel her touch and mouth, unlike my CB6000s. She had me wear the CB 24/7 for the last few months to see how I took to it and it went very well. I showed her the Mature Metal Jailbird with the security screw option. She loved the design and was overjoyed that there would no longer be a padlock to dig into her during sex. She gave me the OK to order it and it will take about 8 weeks before I get it as they custom make them to fit each individual.
There was one other thing she liked about it but has me apprehensive. It is much shorter than my CB6000s which allowed me to get a partial erection. My penis will touch the sides and the front of the Jailbird when flaccid so there will be no more erections, which my wife always felt should not be allowed unless she approved them as a reward. She also feels that I should never cum again but I vetoed that in the past. However as part of our new life, I relinquished any say in my chastity so I am a little worried. I know that she ordered some bras for me to wear and a new cane to punish me with so life will get interesting real soon.
Started permenant chasity today
Started permenant chasity today
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." - Aristotle
Re: Started permenant chasity today
Hi Len51 it sounds as if you are just staring on the same style of chaste life that I have myself been living for some twenty years now. Like your wife my wife, Mandy, feels that errections and orgasms should be totally under her control and so I have been in chastity under her direct supervision since we married in 1994.
The only time I can get an errection at all is during our weekly penis cleaning and excercise session when she will remove my device, which is very similar to the metal jailbird but made to her own design, and allow me wash it. This generally leads to an involuntary errection of course which in turn leads to a swift caning to reduce my ardor prior to being placed back under restraint for another week.
I hope you come to appreciate your permenant lifestyle choice choice as much as I have and continue to enjoy your adventure in chastity. Good Luck.
The only time I can get an errection at all is during our weekly penis cleaning and excercise session when she will remove my device, which is very similar to the metal jailbird but made to her own design, and allow me wash it. This generally leads to an involuntary errection of course which in turn leads to a swift caning to reduce my ardor prior to being placed back under restraint for another week.
I hope you come to appreciate your permenant lifestyle choice choice as much as I have and continue to enjoy your adventure in chastity. Good Luck.