Is my KH being too soft.

[Alex007]

I'm very new here, but I did have some thoughts I wanted to share.

Even before my wife and I started experimenting with chastity, I would ALWAYS ask her permission to orgasm.

And permission would ALWAYS be given. I still enjoyed the ritual of asking and being granted permission, but it really takes something away when you know the answer is going to be "yes".

I talked to my wife about it, and it turned out that the desperation on my face when I'm on the edge is too much for her -- it doesn't occur to her to say "no". She worries -- despite all my reassurances -- that I will resent or even hate her for denying me at this moment.

Topping from the bottom is bad -- but sometimes your Goddess needs, you know, a little help!

My wife now flips a coin when I ask permission to come. Heads - wahoo! Tails - better luck next time.

This took the pressure off her. Now it was the coin -- not her-- that was denying me. And I'm pretty sure that we will be able to dispense with the coin game after not too much longer. Now that my wife has seen that I really won't DIE if I am denied at this moment!

[locked4her55]

My wife now flips a coin when I ask permission to come. Heads - wahoo! Tails - better luck next time.

If your wife truly thinks as you have written that you're "wahoo" excited about getting heads, then maybe you need to explain to her that you really crave being denied.

[Tame Lion]

If I don't get regular teasing I lose interest. Mrs. Lion likes to make me come so I am in no danger of waiting too long. Currently she is experimenting. My wait last time was 11 days and this time it is 9 (Friday is my O day). She always makes me come; generally orally or by hand. I haven't masturbated since last February and then it was just once because she wanted to watch.

If I go a long time with little or no teasing, the orgasm is not very exciting to me either.

[LockedUp24]

My KH is sticking to her Guns on the fact that i must wait till the new year before i get an O.

But to day she filled out of Monthly Play Schedule (Its a thing we do) and she Ticked my Boxes a few times this could mean anything but it means i will get some Attention but again its her choice what when where and IF AT ALL.

I suppose the schedule gives me a goal and one that i dont need to ask about as its right there printed out.

[Alex007]

My wife now flips a coin when I ask permission to come. Heads - wahoo! Tails - better luck next time.

If your wife truly thinks as you have written that you're "wahoo" excited about getting heads, then maybe you need to explain to her that you really crave being denied.

Well, I DO crave being denied. . . except at that moment on the edge, when release is all I crave in the world!

Which is, you know, what makes the denial at that moment such sweet sweet torture, and what makes the Woman who has chosen not to allow me release the Goddess of my existence!