Is teasing better than orgasms?

[Tame Lion]

I'm at the tree-humping horny stage in my wait. Sex is on my mind way more than it should be. Last night Mrs. Lion edged me a few times. I truly loved how that felt. Don't get me wrong, I still wanted to come. Oh boy did I want to!

Today, as I reflect on last night, it seems to me that the sensations that teasing produced were amazing. Every second was pure heaven. Mrs. Lion knows just how to rub me the right way, so to speak. Had she kept going I would have had a spectacular, satisfying orgasm. Just one, of course.

So, if I could handle the growing need for release, the teasing could very well be better than the orgasm it leads up to. I'm not sure that will ever happen for me, but I can begin to understand the appeal of never having another orgasm can have to some.

I would love to know how others relate to this.

[TwistedMister]

I can enjoy the tease, but I need to get the prize every so often too.

[XKB8R]

Long before I had the internet as a handy research tool, I recognized, but didn't have a name for, my post orgasm hangover. It's really been enlightening to learn the neurochemistry behind it all, and have it verify my reality. As much as I like orgasms, I've really come to appreciate how nice it feels to be horny, even up to the point of being really, REALLY horny. I'm not ready to give up on orgasms, but, yeah, being well teased makes it much more difficult to see orgasm as the big payoff it once seemed to be.

[atarikiki]

Agree with that.

[locked4her55]

I too love the tease but as for edging? Well my wife just doesn't seem to get the hang of it and I'm ok with that. The upside is I'm not released from my cage very often, which is a place I like to be.

I'm with TwistedMister. Need to get the prize once and a while.

[CagedforHim]

I was unlocked last night and given the choice between an edging session (with no chance for orgasm) or being allowed to masturbate myself to orgasm. I chose the latter, and while it was a welcome release, I almost immediately regretted my choice. This was the first time in over three months that I've been allowed to masturbate (have had many orgasms during that time, though, just not at my own hand). The orgasm felt hollow compared to the intimacy and heightened sense of arousal an edging session (without O) would have brought about and I know it disappointed my KH that I chose to pleasure myself rather than continue to wait for Him to bring me to orgasm when He felt it to be the right time for me to have release. Lesson learned, and it's been implied that my price for that hollow orgasm is no release until my JB arrives in about three weeks...

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

Long before I had the internet as a handy research tool, I recognized, but didn't have a name for, my post orgasm hangover. It's really been enlightening to learn the neurochemistry behind it all, and have it verify my reality. As much as I like orgasms, I've really come to appreciate how nice it feels to be horny, even up to the point of being really, REALLY horny. I'm not ready to give up on orgasms, but, yeah, being well teased makes it much more difficult to see orgasm as the big payoff it once seemed to be.

I couldn't agree more , being horny all the time sure beats that ultimate orgasm I haven't found yet .

Started my denial July 4th trying for Christmas maybe my feelings will be different after Christmas , but for right now I am very horny and happy.

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

Please let me explain my last post ,we have only been playing at this for about 18 months. It all started at my prompting I know I had a masturbation addiction trying anything and everything alone to find that ultimate orgasm. My wife was hurt when I confessed my masturbation habits ,but did agree to help me curb these habits. My search for the ultimate orgasm through masturbation had ruined our sex life as my desire level was always down when hers was up. After a lot of talking things through she agreed we could try this chastity thing as she called it.

At first she was very skeptical as was I ,but we have grown to like the results. The being locked is being denied and as time and our discussions progressed she has progressed to see and enjoy my constant attention , and desire. Together we are finding the denial is the key to my emotions , as after I an orgasm my desire has to build again ( definitely an age thing as this wasn't always true ) which led to longer denial times. She is the one who decides if I will cum or not ultimately the decision is hers. With these longer periods of denial I found it's not the orgasm but the build up being on the edge that is ultimately superior to the orgasm itself as it never ends.

I will let you know how this progresses , if she holds me out till Christmas or perhaps longer , and what that orgasm is like at that time but for right now life is very good for both of us. Her orgasm are countless and my emotional high continues.

[LockedandLoved]

I'm beginning to really appreciate the edging and denial MK give me.

She takes me to the edge several times each session and I swear I have feelings and sensations that are similar to an orgasm without all the associated energy drop. The only thing missing is the pulse from actually cumming but of course that only last a second or two so no big deal.

I still like a ruined from time to time. It's such a frustrating feeling plus I'm made to eat what I produce which is incredibly submissive in my mind.

[sherulestherooster]

Long before I had the internet as a handy research tool, I recognized, but didn't have a name for, my post orgasm hangover. It's really been enlightening to learn the neurochemistry behind it all, and have it verify my reality. As much as I like orgasms, I've really come to appreciate how nice it feels to be horny, even up to the point of being really, REALLY horny. I'm not ready to give up on orgasms, but, yeah, being well teased makes it much more difficult to see orgasm as the big payoff it once seemed to be.

XKB8R sums up how I feel pretty well. Yes, my orgasms are mind-blowing, especially after one or more teasing sessions. But when I am denied long term (as I am now), I get in a state of euphoria about my relationship with my wife. I don't really understand this that well, but I get the "orgasm hangover" described above and really don't like it. I like to submit to her and serve her and after I've come, I feel grumpy and distant. It seems like males are programmed to mate, relax a bit, then move on to hunter/gathering.

Love teasing: verbal, visual, and physical.