She denied me her orgasm

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HerTDToy
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She denied me her orgasm

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I never had this happen with my KH before, and wondered whether anyone else experiences this occasionally or regularly. She'd been teasing me throughout the day, playfully tugging at me, telling me I'd need to service her later - basically doing a good job of whipping me into a frenzy of wanting to rip her clothes off.

When we finally made it to bed after the kids were asleep, I was exhausted, but she quickly wiggled out of her panties, spread her legs and told me to get to work. I took my time, slowly building her up, and soon she was dripping wet and getting close. The room was dark and quiet and I could hear her breathing getting sharper and more urgent.

She then pushed me away, closed up shop and told me she wasn't going to cum tonight. She basically denied me her orgasm.

Now given that I repeatedly tell her that making her cum is my favorite thing in the world, this was totally unexpected.

"Wait... What?" I stammered

"Not tonight. I know it's hard to wait. I'm soooooo wet, but I want to see if I get hornier tomorrow." she replied grinding her beautiful ass into my cage as I spooned her. "Plus, this shows that I'm in control."

I snuggled with her, let a hand wander and touch her soaked pussy and whimpered as she chuckled at my caged cock twitching against her thigh.

It was hot, but holy shit - I never even imagined she'd deny herself an orgasm to get into my head. Have other people had this happen? I can't imagine being in long term chastity without the opportunity to make her cum. It's like a reverse-double-denial with a kick! It's definitely clear who's calling the shots.
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Re: She denied me her orgasm

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Is she denying her orgasm to you or to HERSELF?

You are denying your orgasm to yourself all the time. Maybe she just wants to try how it feels to be denied :)
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HerTDToy wrote: I never even imagined she'd deny herself an orgasm to get into my head. Have other people had this happen?
Nope, never had this happen. I tried several times to edge her but I got scolded for my efforts. If my wife wants to be serviced, then an orgasm is emanate.
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Yeah, it was the weirdest thing. She denied me giving her an orgasm. Seems like she looses on that one, but maybe she wanted to see if it increased her sex drive.

Either way, I derive so much satisfaction out of making her cum that it was actually frustrating for me - which is why it was a weird double-denial. Maybe she's just experimenting, or maybe she just didn't feel it happening that night.

We'll see what happens tonight. :)
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My KH has told me many times that she thinks it unfair if she has orgasms while I'm locked up. Occasionally she will let me use my fingers, but she says she wants to be horny as well when she unlocks me. After one orgasm she told me that it had extended my lockup so she could build herself up again. Oh, did I have mixed feelings after that.
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My KH wife mixes things up quite a bit and there isn't any kind pattern and I am always guessing what's in store for me. It still amazes me how well she plays me.

She has denied me like this a few times to me also. I swear it's on purpose to get me all worked up. She is always looking for ways to keep me horny and when she does this I am all messed up afterwards. Crazy horny, mind twisted and can't stop thinking about her pussy so wet and puffy, her muscles getting tensed, then........... "Good Night".
I think the worst part is that she says nothing at all and won't talk about it. Sometimes I think our wives belong to some kind of secret sisterhood.

I had forgotten all about this until I read this post and now I am getting that weird worked up feeling like the last time she did this to me. Thanks HerTDToy for making me relive those events.
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My KH always gets hers, however I have been sent out the room while she uses her vibrator. It is really hard to deal with that.
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notbeinfringed85 wrote:My KH always gets hers, however I have been sent out the room while she uses her vibrator. It is really hard to deal with that.
I've had the same thing happen...even long before I started being locked in a cage, it wasn't uncommon for her to tell me to get several of her vibrators out of the toybox, go down on her for a few minutes to get her 'warmed up' and sent out of the house to do yard work or the grocery store while she pleasures herself. It's impossible to not keep thinking about what she's doing at the time, and I'm missing the whole thing.

It drives me crazy, because I know they're going to be laying on the bed when I dare 'bother her' again after what I figure is enough time for her to get off, coated with her dried juices...and expected to lick them clean.

With Beth it's ALWAYS about her orgasm. She demands it. I've had to 'suck her off' (her term) for as long as an hour to give her one if she's fatigued or stressed out, and become increasingly frantic frantic to do because on those occasions I can't manage to deliver an orgasm she'll be a genuinely foul mood the rest of the day.
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