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kunst
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too horny...

Post by kunst »

Hello,
I am now in a semi-routine where I am allowed to cum about once per week. During the week we have intercourse almost every day and my wife has orgasms almost every day. Every session lasts about 30minutes.
Now, the problem is that after 4-5 days I start to be so horny that I almost cannot enter in her. In fact, yesterday I accidentally cummed inside (BTW, I am not native speaker: "cum" is a regular verb?).
How do you manage such a situation? Maybe avoid entering in for couple of days and use vibrator for her? Does horniness decrease after couple of days without stimulation, so that after having a "rest" I can start again having intercourse without getting too close?
Thanks.
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Re: too horny...

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Have you considerd using a sheath from a sex shop. Something thick that is designed to block stimulation?

Others on here have reported to use strapons on their partner and in some cases a numbing cream applied to the penis and used in conjunction with a condom to avoid numbing your partner.
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kunst
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Post by kunst »

coffee2sugars wrote:Have you considerd using a sheath from a sex shop. Something thick that is designed to block stimulation?
That is a good idea. But, we have to find one with small diameter. My wife does not like too large objects. For example the first vibrator we bought was too large and we had to buy another with small diameter.
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Post by XKB8R »

(BTW, I am not native speaker: "cum" is a regular verb?).
"Cum" is a variant spelling of "come", both as a noun and a verb. Since the past tense of "come" is "came", I think in the sense you used it, "came inside her" would be more proper. At least that's how we say it where I cum from. :oops:

Uh, I mean, that's how we say it where I grew up. ;)
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Post by LockedandLoved »

kunst wrote:Hello,
I am now in a semi-routine where I am allowed to cum about once per week. During the week we have intercourse almost every day and my wife has orgasms almost every day. Every session lasts about 30minutes.
Now, the problem is that after 4-5 days I start to be so horny that I almost cannot enter in her. In fact, yesterday I accidentally cummed inside (BTW, I am not native speaker: "cum" is a regular verb?).
How do you manage such a situation? Maybe avoid entering in for couple of days and use vibrator for her? Does horniness decrease after couple of days without stimulation, so that after having a "rest" I can start again having intercourse without getting too close?
Thanks.
Have you considered using numbing cream and a condom? The idea is put enough of the numbing cream on that you don't want to cum but you also keep your erection. Slip the condom over your penis and she can still use you buy you hopefully wont cum

I do not have experience with this as I am pretty well able to hold back but I have read accounts online that seem to indicate it works pretty well
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Post by williem61 »

Use multiple condoms until you can't feel much.