Numbing cream

[Mayhew]

Only a newbie at using devices but I did find that when let out, I was pretty sensitive for the first few minutes.

We waited for a bit and then had sex, and it was fine. Edged once and then after that it was all good.

Not sure about after a long period of denial. I think it would probably be better to make me come, wait, then have the sex. Pretty much as Wendy just said.

On the subject of creams - I used Indian God lotion once and it worked OK, but the next few times it just felt weird.

[Chastehusband]

So after I had an accident on Wednesday evening, last night I used some numbing cream and a condom, it worked really well, I was unable to cum but pleasure my wife for as long as she wanted it.

[Atone]

last night I used some numbing cream and a condom, it worked really well,

so what did you use?

-A

[Chastehusband]

I used a little bit of anal-eze which contains Benzocaine as a numbing agent.

[Atone]

I used a little bit of anal-eze which contains Benzocaine as a numbing agent.

thanks, isn't that also a lubricant?

Maybe I will try a benzocaine cream that doesn't contain a lube, no point it adding to the pleasure if the goal is to reduce it.

-A

[Chastehusband]

No, it isnt lube for sure.

[KBCB]

We just tried Ambosol tooth pain aid! It's 20% bezocaine. I rub it on all over but mostly head and sweet spot. I left it on for 8 mins and then washed it off completely so no numbing of her anywhere. I went on and on and brought her to so many orgasms she was spent. I did not cum not sure I could but she was not going to let me so...... I stayed fully hard and she loves penetration so this could help? K&C

[kinkywife]

I have tried a few different creams on my hubby as even when we make love I don't let him cum, he has to hold it. Most of the creams didn't work that well but the one that worked really well was china brush.

[Playerazzi]

Well, before you have intercourse, you can have a quickie orgasm on your own. Wait a few minutes, then take care of her, as you'll be "down" and less horny, so you'll have more patience.

Once she's done, you'll have recovered sufficiently to give her penetrative sex, AND you'll last much longer.

We've done this, and it works.

She can play around a bit with that first orgasm.

[Atone]

Well, before you have intercourse, you can have a quickie orgasm on your own.

You do realize this is a chastity forum right? Most of the members here practice Orgasm Denial as well (although at least one doesn't).

Welcome to the forum though. I hope you found the right place

-A