Is she nasty?

[edochast]

Hi to all fo you. I have two questions on you people, with more experience, than I have.

First of all - my current situation. My last full orgasm was on christmas, in 4 months I had two orgasm (one was an ruined accident - she stroke me a little bit to long by a tease). I am on a strict tease denial/cum schedule. The last schedule expired on 31. december. I should have a new one on 28. february (no tease and no cum in time out of schedule) - util the change in last night.

I was eating her pussy and made her an orgasm. Then we was resting in a spoon position for about 10 minutes. After that time, she beginn to move her naked ass and stroke my penis with her ass. I was super horny in one second. She was moving it more and more, troking and pushing with it toward my penis. Then she moved a little, so my penis touch her pussy.....it was totally wet! I dont know why, I was super horny, so i sliped into her pussy with my penis. Then she sudently stoped, turn around and aked me, what should that be? I answered thad i was thinking, that maybe she will have sex. She tells me, that I need more self control practice and I obviously dont realize, how it work. So she tells me, that she will move my next schedule to 30 april!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The schedule will be set for two months - may and june and I know, that if she will me let to cum, it will be in the end of the schedule. That mean - 6 months without an orgasm!!!!

What was the way for you to make it so long for the first time? How was it for you?

The second question is, what do you think - is she not a litte currish. Just a little? Because, at home she is wearing fast 90% time only t-shirt with her naked ass and pussy. It is werry hard sometimes, because she makes me total horny!! I can not stop to think about the christmas orgasm, that i cum inside her. It was the best orgasm, that i ever had! I thing, that mayme to beginn with a sport will help me to wait until my next schedule/orgasm.

[coffee2sugars]

I dont have any real advice to be honest but I would say to you I admire your your resolve.

Good luck mate.

[Michele]

I don't have any advice as I haven't been able to make hubby go more than a month yet hahaI end up wanting him too bad! Good luck!

[Finn]

Find a sport that takes big balls!

[Rocky]

We started off slow and now my wife wants me to go three weeks without an orgasm. I think she is doing it for me rather than her because she likes when we orgasm together. I have noticed that her orgasms are much more intense when I also orgasm than when I do not. The other day I felt bad because her first orgasm was kind of weak so I gave her another which was much better but not the painful toe curling, muscle cramping, ones we have when we both orgasm together.

My advice is to start off slowly and build up to longer periods of chastity. That way you can see how you react plus it allows you to get used to it slowly. I know that once when I thought I was not going to have an orgasm for a month, my wife was only saying that to keep me off balance, I sort of shut down and lost interest in sex and behaved worst than I do after an orgasm. If you read my other posts in this forum you will find out that my wife now wants me to go without for three weeks and that has be scared and thinking that I cannot and do not want to go that long. I always looked forward to at least a weekly orgasm. It is what got me through the week. I think if we had started off with long term lockup, I would have just given up on it altogether. Doing it gradually allowed me to find my comfort zone.

[edochast]

Six weeks from my last post I started to go to gym 3x a week and start running 3x a week too. I must say, that it helps a little bit to control my self. The sport make me sometimes so tired, that it is not so hard to make her an orgasm and then not have one my self (and I lose some fat too - 4 kilograms in this 6 weeks )....but it is helping me only sometimes...sometimes i am super horny and i can sport how much I want it will not be less. In theese days it is still hard, but I will make it

I am proud, that I could make it trougt the Valentines day.....Usualy we come from work together. On valentines day she take a day off work - I was so horny the whole day (i hoped a little, that maybe she will give me a orgasm surprise ).As I came home, she has served a romantic dinner. She had an sexy shirt. After the diner we went to bed. I made her an orgasm and after that she tied me to the bed and she undress her self - it Was only the secont dime, that i saw her fully naked (she wear a t shirt every time)....i was like OMG. She started to tease me (i have no tease-denyal-cum schedule now, so I was realy excited) and it went that for +- 45 minutes. Then she unties me and say that she has a valentines present for me. I can jerk off but I must make my self an ruined orgasm. But that will mean that the next schedule will be moved from 30. march to 31. may. Or I will not touch my self and she will move the next schedule from 30. march to 10. march......It was hard but i managed to not jerk of my self ))))) So I am wayting, I have less than 24 hours to my next schedule. I hope that I will have a full orgasm in it ))))

[Rocky]

My wife is always telling me that I lack self control. She does not know why. She really does not understand men because she is a bisexual with a preference for women. I have had to educate her on the differences between the sexes. We started off with very short term chastity. At first it was just as long as our time between orgasms. Then it went to a week, then two weeks and now I am waiting a month. We did it slowly over the last 5 months.

My problem with long term chastity is that my orgasm is so far away that it is not an incentive for me to act better. My wife could add all the extra days she wants but it will only come down to me getting more irritable and then demanding to be unlocked and stop doing chastity. No matter what we say, we are not slaves or forced into chastity. We like to think we are, but we are willing participants and as such, should have some say in your chastity period. My wife and I have a basic structure for chastity. She know how long I will accept and that I will accept her pushing my limits a little bit if necessary. Chastity should give both of you something you both like. If not then it is only for the benefit of one of you and that never ends well.

Try just telling your wife that you have a chastity limit and if she does not accept that then unlock you and forget about it. Remember that she has more to lose than you do so she may be willing to negotiate. I come from a BDSM background where we always negotiated the session and set limits. We did not go into detail but just the general outline of what we both wanted to accomplish. I never had a bad experience because we communicated about our wants and needs. Good Luck.

[edochast]

Thank your for your post and comment.

To understand - I am some times wery horny and it is sometimes wery hard, because I want a orgasm and to cum so much....but as strange, as it may sound, I am fully dedicated to her. My orgasm is fully dedicated to her. I never had such a type of relationship before (as you can read in my journey). I can not imagine that i can have an orgasm release without her permission.....i hope that it does not sound wery stragne ))

To the second thing - she game me new schedule and I have a biiiiig dilema here

The next shcedule is from today to end may. I have two possibilities:

1.) I can have 4 ruined orgasm in this time and the next schedule will be set on 31 july

OR

2.) I can have only one orgasm, but a full one - i cam cum inside her on 31. may.....BUT then the next schedule will be set on 30. september!!!!!

Hard decision to make......I have time to decide until wensday. What would be the better way for you?

[edochast]

OK, so i choose the one full orgasm option. I was thinking wery hard about it. I think that one full orgasm is still better than 4 ruined I hope that I will think the same on end of may

[edochast]

OK, the fourth month without an orgasm and 10 weeks of intense sport The lust for an Orgasm is still here (the sport is helping only in moment of exercise), but the good thing is, that I loose 7 kilograms and make a local 1/4 marathon (10 km run) this weekend - I made it in 70 minutes. In past I would not make 1 kilometer in this Time :DDDDD.