Erections and milking

[notbeinfringed85]

So I'm only going to be locked while unsupervised for a little while. It has been six days for me without an O, which is the longest I've gone. I noticed the "blue balls" feeling that is now constant gets worse for about an hour after erection. I know this is normal, but how long does it take before you don't feel it or is it a forever thing? Does it not happen as much if you are locked 24/7 and can't get an erection? Next, my KH, while enjoys being rough with me, is repulsed by anything anal. So I don't get prostate milkings or any other release but orgasm. Plus I'm not allowed to of it myself. So with no release, for who knows how long since it is at her discretion, will this do any harm? I've read that nocturnal emissions will take care of things, but I've never had one to my knowledge. What do y'all think?

[notbeinfringed85]

Should have been under general....sorry.

[Michele]

I don't know if we have a post on our blog about this yet or not... if not I need to get one up!

But the short story is there is zero medical reason to be milked and no there is no harm in not having release. Your body will reabsorb your dudes so there is no reason to worry there either. Btw your balls do not fill up with anything when you have that blue balls feeling... it just feels full, so don't worry about that either.

I think the blue ball thing is going to be different individually but cagedmonkey says for him it comes and goes. It sticks around and lingers as he's aroused and I'm teasing him. He suggests you stop thinking about it because the more he focuses on the feeling, the more and longer he will feel it.

Hope this helps!

[notbeinfringed85]

That makes a lot if sense. I have read your blog and it helped push us toward the chastity lifestyle. I guess I will grow accustomed to the sensations and emotions, but not thinking about it is a big task right now. Kinda like the old mind control trick, "Don't think about a pink elephant!" You all seem very knowledgable about chastity and all advice is greatly appreciated.

[Rocky]

Shhhh! Blue balls have resulted in more intercourse and oral from uninformed women for ages. Some felt that they had to so something to relieve the horrible pain of their dates or boyfriends. Even my wife was initially concerned about the health effects of not cumming a few times a week.

[Michele]

Shhhh! Blue balls have resulted in more intercourse and oral from uninformed women for ages. Some felt that they had to so something to relieve the horrible pain of their dates or boyfriends. Even my wife was initially concerned about the health effects of not cumming a few times a week.

I was like that... very concerned! Even our first agreement had milking in it on a schedule haha we realized it's more for fun and yes it does relieve the prostate but has nothing to do with the "blue balls."

My hubby and I are nuts and visited the urologist to go over this kind of stuff but that's just who we are... we like to play it safe!

[Atone]

it comes and goes.

exactly

[TMcDHJ]

You'll get used to it over time. Don't get me wrong, you'll still have the desire and ache but you'll learn to accept it as part of the fun. I am milked every two weeks but it is more for fun than anything medical.

[notbeinfringed85]

Thanks for y'all's input. I guess it's kinda like working out. You get tired, sore, and sometimes it burns, but when you can see results, you know it's all worth it. What better result is there than the look in a KH eyes, when they are satisfied.