Chastity - by choice or enforced?

[Linus]

Dear all,
We all are locked from few days to few years. Occasionally to 24x7. Some are allowed breaks, some are not. However, the common factor is that everyone here seems to be enjoying "Living the real life under lock and key". I was just curious to know a few things. Hope you will share your experience.
1. Who introduced chastity? You or your KH partner?
2. What was your / your partner's first response?
3. Who selected the cage / belt for you? You or your KH partner?
4. Today, who enjoys 'you being chaste' more? You or your KH partner or both?
5. 'Given a choice', will you quit this lifestyle?

[Linus]

Before I expect your feedback, let me give my inputs
1. I introduced chastity to my wife basically to prove my loyalty towards her & to give her an assurance that I'm not involved with any other woman
2. She instantly liked the idea, because there could not have been any better remedy to clear her suspicion about me being flirt
3. Of course she selected a solid steel cage for me, which is escape proof
4. Today, we both enjoy chastity beyond our expectation, but for different reasons. We both have been having great sexual life ever since I'm locked 24x7. In addition, I enjoy serving to all her pleasures as she wishes. Whereas she enjoys having 'total' control over my junk and also my mind. Yes, chastity HAS changed my mental setup
5. There is no way my wife will ever give me a choice to be free! Having said that, I don't think I'll ever quit this lifestyle that has given both of us a new life!!

[Annes-sub]

1. My wife always threatened to lock me up but I'm the one that ordered it so that one is both on are part.

2. I was excited and nervous at first then loved it after getting use to it. She loved it from the get go she finally had her cock on lock down..lol

3. I selected one off the internet. But she has decided to go with a MM for the look and my comfort. She likes the metal look..

4.I have to say both...

5. I don't see it happening in the near future. She loves the change I have gone through and her dom side is out and she enjoys it as much as I enjoy pleasuring her and pleasing her in every way I can..

[chastehub]

1. Who introduced chastity? You or your KH partner?

i did

2. What was your / your partner's first response?

See this post for details: http://chastityforums.com/viewtopic.php ... 310#p88103

3. Who selected the cage / belt for you? You or your KH partner?

i did

4. Today, who enjoys 'you being chaste' more? You or your KH partner or both?

Still me, but she's starting to appreciate the "better man" chastity brings out, and even now checks to make sure i'm locked up after i return from work so she's come a long way. See this post for details on the better man:
http://chastityforums.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=59326

5. 'Given a choice', will you quit this lifestyle?

No...but i can't see the elderly version of myself in the nursing home with a cage on my crank, so i'm thinking at some point i'll give up. Then again, maybe i'll be such a dirty old man MyBride will want to keep me locked up

All things being equal, MyBride would probably be just as happy if we quit the lifestyle. But then not all things are equal.

[locked4her55]

1. Who introduced chastity? You or your KH partner?

I did

2. What was your / your partner's first response?

Shock It took some real dialogue before she began to understand. Couple of intense days.

3. Who selected the cage / belt for you? You or your KH partner?

I purchased the first one (CB3000) and sprang it on her. The Mature Metal ones she picked out. It was like we were shopping for a dishwasher.

4. Today, who enjoys 'you being chaste' more? You or your KH partner or both?

I believe I enjoy it more but she has said she would be disappointed if we stopped.

5. 'Given a choice', will you quit this lifestyle?

Can't see it happening for quite awhile.

[clamence]

1. No PIV was my wife. Male chastity was a common proposal in the follow of our sex games to go further than denial PIV.
2. We were both very excited by these kinky commitments.
3. I selected the cage on the net with her.
4. Both in different way...
5. For sure I won't quit that lifestyle

So by choice...

[Michele]

1. Who introduced chastity? You or your KH partner?
Cagedmonkey introduced

2. What was your / your partner's first response?
At first I said I wasn't really feeling it but that it wasn't off the table... I needed time to
research and learn all about it.

3. Who selected the cage / belt for you? You or your KH partner?
I picked out all of the devices he wears or has worn

4. Today, who enjoys 'you being chaste' more? You or your KH partner or both?
We both very much enjoy it... I might like it just a smidge more

5. 'Given a choice', will you quit this lifestyle?
Not that I can see for a very long time... I'm looking forward to being kinky little old people with him still in chastity!

[Aarkey]

1. Who introduced chastity? You or your KH partner?
2. What was your / your partner's first response?
3. Who selected the cage / belt for you? You or your KH partner?
4. Today, who enjoys 'you being chaste' more? You or your KH partner or both?
5. 'Given a choice', will you quit this lifestyle?

At this point, it is a bit of both.

1. I did. I have been playing with chastity for 11 years, been dating my current g/f and Domme for a year (tomorrow actually.)

2. She was very excited by the idea.

3. Already owned one for years.

4. I'm starting to think its her. She used me last night and locked up up again this morning. I'm definitely staying locked up more than I had ever before, and its getting at that love it, hate it phase. And loving that I hate it... but that's my kink.

5. Nope. And I hope anyone who's at that point and not enjoying their "lifestyle" would communicate with their partners and work it out.

[Intense_Restraint]

1. Who introduced chastity? I did. My wife had never heard of a chastity device until I got one and showed it to her.
2. What was your / your partner's first response? She was very surprised.
3. Who selected the cage for you? I bought it, and didn't say anything about it until it arrived and I had locked it on me.
4. Today, who enjoys 'you being chaste' more? I think I enjoy it more, although she seems to appreciate the positive changes associated with it, and my generally helpful attitude.
5. 'Given a choice', will you quit this lifestyle? No, I don't think so.