Is it normal to regret your orgasm?

[Oldtimer]

I am new at this but I have noticed that when my wife makes me orgasm after a week of chastity I tend to regret it. Hard to explain but all week I am teased and denied and in a constant state of arousal and when I am about to cum I start thinking that I am trading that feeling for a few seconds of pleasure and ruining all my hard work for the week. Right now my wife wants me to try for two weeks and I am torn. On one hand I want an orgasm as I am used to having one on weekends. On the other hand, the T&D is great and my wife is having more orgasms in a week than she has had in a very long time. So I do and I don't. Is this normal?

[kpb57]

Perfectly normal.
I often feel like that, but the feeling is outweighed by the fact that she enjoys it so much to bring me off.

-K

[TwistedMister]

Normal? Is any of this 'normal'? LOL, seriously though, I don't think it's unusual. Give the 2 weeks a try, see how much you appreciate an orgasm then.

I haven't had a full, real orgasm in more than 4 months- had 2 'ruined' and one 'stifled'. One of my 'limits' is that I must not be denied orgasm for more than 3 months...unfortunately, I don't think I was specific enough to stipulate that it must be at least 1 *full* orgasm every 3 months.

Actually, I find it kind of exciting to be denied for a fairly long time, then teased until I'm desperate and reduced to begging to be allowed to cum...

[Annes-sub]

I had the same feeling when I started this also. After the first week I was offer sex after a teasing and I asked for another week. When I was allowed to cum after two weeks it was amazing. But a week later I became pushing and begging for an O and was forced to lay there next to my wife and rub one out on my own that one made me feel regret. I also have been punished for that and I'm not allowed to know when I will be able to have another O. I do think the longer u go the more u will like it and not feel any regrets about it. I'm actually looking forward to this long term session I'm in now..

[locked4her55]

Same feelings. When I'm told I am allowed to cum it's almost like I'm cheating. Like being on a diet and then eating a desert after the meal. Tasted good while eating it but after I'm done I'm let down.

[Oldtimer]

Perfectly normal.
I often feel like that, but the feeling is outweighed by the fact that she enjoys it so much to bring me off.

-K

That is how my wife is. She enjoys getting me off just as much as I do her. The whole idea it give her control over my orgasms and if she wants me to have them weekly, I should not tell her how to control them. That would sort of be topping from the bottom and taking away something she enjoys doing.

[Intense_Restraint]

I think I regret my orgasms a tiny bit because I enjoy the anticipation and the denial. However, after a good night's sleep, I'm usually ready for my new prison term to begin.

I think some guys persuade their wives to let them stay locked longer, but I let my wife decide when she thinks I should have an orgasm, and I try to avoid hinting one way or the other.