No intercourse at all as part of chastity

[Atone]

My wife really likes penetration. She prefers her "humming bird" dildo over anything else. Occasionally she really wants me but that is the exception. Last time I was inside her was early July. It had probably been at least a year before that, maybe more.

We tried the numbing cream a couple of times but I think it was way more trouble than it was worth to her. Now I mostly just stay locked up. We both seem to like it better that way anyway.

[fuzzydunlop]

I don't get to this point too often, but some of times I have felt the best, is when I have felt confident, and had PIV intercourse very slowly for a long time without climaxing. Last summer, we had intercourse about an hour doing this. Lately, I have been a little less patient and have come when I have gotten the chance.

[fuzzydunlop]

Does anyone else include intercourse denial into their chastity life? I can understand how it can be exciting to have your partner ride you while you are not allowed to cum inside of her so I do not expect many to engage in our practice. Just curious.

Being totally and completely denied is a very hot fantasy of mine. The longest I have gone with no orgasm or intercourse whatsoever is about 50 days or so. I can only work up to going that long every so often.

But I enjoy a lot of other things too.

Having PIV with no orgasm is great. We did this last summer for about an hour. We were both shaven and I could feel her all over me. I love that.

Ruined orgasms are very intense. I can't say I "enjoy" them, but I do enjoy the intensity.

Finally getting to cum after a long time is awesome. Especially when we do it doggy style, where I can better control my orgasm.

[Oldtimer]

Does anyone else include intercourse denial into their chastity life? I can understand how it can be exciting to have your partner ride you while you are not allowed to cum inside of her so I do not expect many to engage in our practice. Just curious.

Being totally and completely denied is a very hot fantasy of mine. The longest I have gone with no orgasm or intercourse whatsoever is about 50 days or so. I can only work up to going that long every so often.

But I enjoy a lot of other things too.

Having PIV with no orgasm is great. We did this last summer for about an hour. We were both shaven and I could feel her all over me. I love that.

Ruined orgasms are very intense. I can't say I "enjoy" them, but I do enjoy the intensity.

Finally getting to cum after a long time is awesome. Especially when we do it doggy style, where I can better control my orgasm.

My ruined orgasms are intense and then I can have another more intense one immediately after. I have had ruined or asks before we practiced chastity and Rembrandt them being weak with mostly just some clear fluid. Now it is different, it feels and acts like a regular orgasm. My guess is that it is the anti anxiety medication I am on which is known to increase libido and increase sexual feeling.

[clamence]

For my wife and I our chastity play includes intercourse denial as well. This choice of lifestyle lasts for seven years now. It has become an important part of our commitment as a couple. Moreover, like you, we progressively move to less and less orgasms for me. And now more and more we initiate the tantric relationship.

For us, knowing that I have not been allowed to penetrate my wife since all that time it's now a greater turn-on for both than penetration itself. Of course I'm sometimes very frustrated but also very proud of my vow. So we don't want to stop it.

[luckylocked]

No PIV sex for me. I have cum inside her once in 4 years and have only been allowed in three times in that period. Mrs K is pretty blunt about it. She said if my penis had a tongue above it I would get in there a lot more but she just cannot do without my tongue.
We have had NIV sex a lot though. Whenever she is queening me she always says I love how your nose feels in my pussy

[Finn]

For my wife and I our chastity play includes intercourse denial as well. This choice of lifestyle lasts for seven years now. It has become an important part of our commitment as a couple. Moreover, like you, we progressively move to less and less orgasms for me. And now more and more we initiate the tantric relationship.

For us, knowing that I have not been allowed to penetrate my wife since all that time it's now a greater turn-on for both than penetration itself. Of course I'm sometimes very frustrated but also very proud of my vow. So we don't want to stop it.

Sounds like us. We started with Tantric, where we had PIV, but I didn't orgasm. We did that for maybe 10 years, then recently she had been enjoying dildo's, which led to a strap-on, which led to no PIV. With my focus entirely on her orgasm, and the pace that she enjoys, it was often hard to stay fully erect during sex, plus she would lose feeling, and I'd have to pull out and dry things off if we had over-lubed. This isnt an issue with the strap-on. I actually get harder, knowing that my penis gets nothing, than when we had PIV. It's odd being a denial fetishist.
We live in what we call a "semi-poly" where my sub/girl lives in her own apartment in the house. There is no genital to genital contact allowed in that relationship. Basically, I'm stuck with a penis that gets nothing from my wife, and gets unlocked occasionally for oral or masturbation from my girl. It's actually, totally worth it.

[sherulestherooster]

Since we've gone to a wife-focused sex life, we have less sexual penetration, so I infer that she prefers other sex acts more than intercourse. In an ironic twist, my wife's focus is squarely on her orgasms, not the journey to get there. I like the journey more, the feeling of arousal and buildup, whether or not I climax.

My wife can climax intensely in the cowgirl woman on top position, but chooses to do so only on rare occasions. She has never climaxed during Missionary style without a vibrator on her clitoris. We have climaxed simultaneously a fair amount of times, which we both enjoy immensely. She seems to prefer climaxing with penetration, but it's my finger more often than my cock.

While my orgasms are more intense with handjobs, there is no real substitute for the carnal act of penetration. It is much more emotionally bonding and there are times when she demands that I penetrate her, I think for this deeper connection.

I have been denied entrance to her pussy for over a month, which has been fun, but I don't think we could go much longer than that.

[Oldtimer]

For my wife and I our chastity play includes intercourse denial as well. This choice of lifestyle lasts for seven years now. It has become an important part of our commitment as a couple. Moreover, like you, we progressively move to less and less orgasms for me. And now more and more we initiate the tantric relationship.

For us, knowing that I have not been allowed to penetrate my wife since all that time it's now a greater turn-on for both than penetration itself. Of course I'm sometimes very frustrated but also very proud of my vow. So we don't want to stop it.

I do not even have a desire for PIV anymore. My two 'wives' would get each other off and had little interest in PIV sex. Not even dildos. They would often involve me in their sex but never in receiving or giving of their orgasms. Most times I got disinterested hand jobs while they talked about non sexual things if I did not orgasm during our BDSM play.