"My Lady and I, admittedly, jumped into this male chastity thing pretty quickly. We talked everything over and did plenty of research, but things accelerated pretty quickly once we got rolling - we went from purchasing our first CB6000s device to ordering a custom made steel device in just a couple weeks!
Even though we moved pretty fast, I felt we were somewhat prepared for our new life involving chastity. There were a few things I didn't see coming though:
1. How comfortable the device would be - I expected to always be aware of the cage on me, feeling it throughout the day with every step. But now it's almost like another piece of clothing; sometimes I don't even notice it until I move a certain way.
2. How uncomfortable the device would be - I knew the cage would be confining for erections, but I didn't realize how much pressure would be placed on my balls as well. My off-the-shelf Bird cage gives me about a half an inch or so of space to grow at the end of the shaft. When I start to get hard, the cage pushes up and squeezes my balls very tight. Hopefully our custom ordered cage will help with this a little bit.
3. How easily chastity integrates into my life - wearing the cage allows me to do light work outs, play sports with my kids, and get around at my job, ask without problems. I was surprised at how well the cage is hidden by my clothing; I was expecting to have to buy a while new wardrobe!
4. How enthusiastic my Lady would be - this was the MOST surprising! To be honest, she might be MORE enthusiastic about chastity than I am, which is certainly saying something!"
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~Lady
