chastity without bdsm

[supinchastity]

Hello all who did not get a chance to read my "hello world" post. I'm a young man at 27. My wife and I have tried quite a few things in our marriage and we have come to somewhat of a plateau. Be it a great one! She is not really kinky at heart however she has indulged me in the past the best she can and I love her even more for it. On the flip side, I have tried to be more vanilla and more manly for her and I have failed miserably as I eventually fall back into a submissive and feminine mindset.

After all of this trial and error though we have seem to come to a place of understanding. I think she is becoming much more comfortable with having the power and telling me what she wants instead of asking. I am now in chastity 24/7 without any other kinks added (although she does permit me to wear panties on a daily basis). We are basically using the chastity at this point to actually help control my submissive side, using it to effectively curb my masturbation to bdsm porn issue. So the way that it is working is we still have sex on a regular basis but I am in strict chastity for the times in-between.

I do wish that she would take a much more dominant role and use the device to the full potential but at this point I do not think that I can complain as she is actually using it at all.

Thanks all for reading

[MikeyLikes]

Your situation sounds very similar to ours. Glad to hear that your wife is as receptive as she is to you taking a more submissive role. My wife has stated that she would prefer that I be more dominant in the bedroom and doesn't like my submissive/fem tendencies.

[supinchastity]

She tolerates the fem side as long as it isn't talked about is what it seems. I do wish it was more in the open, it would be a dream come true to be girlfriends for at least one day a month

[poor]

You are wearing 24/7 but not using it to 'full potential'? What more can it do?

[supinchastity]

I guess I would want more d/s style is what I meant there