It is difficult to know what happened there, and I agree that it is important to check in to find out what was going on on the inside. That is what really matters!
Then again, I've reached orgasm without physical contact... so...
Also, during a recent lockup, Lukus had an actual wet dream - while locked. He awoke in the middle of the night in a pool of spooge, and had to put down a towel over the puddle! There had been hardly any T&D during that cycle as we were both pretty beat from working. When he told me the next morning, I said "well, at least your subconscious is having fun!"
And then we had
incredibly hot release-from-denial sex later on. So I don't really think it affected the, uh, "ultimate outcome" much.