Part-time?

[consciousmind]

I have been searching around this forum for a bit now and do not see any mention of guys wearing their devices only during certain parts of the week.
Everyone's thing is their own thing, but the part that keeps me from wanting to jump in is wearing a device at work, followed by the gym.
Do any of you have a relationship with your KH where you only wear the device at home?
<he asked timidly>
Thanks...

[Locked by LRC]

I think one of the misconceptions is that a chastity relationship is 100% caged. Any wearing time of the cage that is an agreement between you and the K/H should be acceptable.

When we first started it was only a weekend thing. Then it slowly evolved into full time. We are now back to about 50/50. All of these changes were agreed to by both of us.

LRC, about a month ago, wanted me to be easily available so she wanted the 50/50 arrangement. Who knows, maybe in another month I may be back to 100%.

[celticqueens_sub]

I have been searching around this forum for a bit now and do not see any mention of guys wearing their devices only during certain parts of the week.
Everyone's thing is their own thing, but the part that keeps me from wanting to jump in is wearing a device at work, followed by the gym.
Do any of you have a relationship with your KH where you only wear the device at home?
<he asked timidly>
Thanks...

I don't wear mine at night, getting up to pee and disturbing my wife is to disruptive so she unlockmes me everynight. You don't have to be caged all the time, some guys run the honour system and don't have a cage at all. Its a mind thing as much as a phsyical thing.

[Tom Allen]

Nope. Forget it; only posers would wear a device part time. Go big or go home.

:ahem:

Seriously, get the idea out of your head that you *have* to do things a certain way. Some guys don't wear it at the gym. Some guys do a lot of physical labor and find that they can't wear it then. Some guys can't find a device that fits right. Some guys can wear it during the day, but not at night.

There's no right way to do this. Just try it out. When it's not working well for you, then stop.

[KeyheldHubby]

LOL

I always get a laugh when I read Tom's replies...

Do any of you have a relationship with your KH where you only wear the device at home?
<he asked timidly>

One thing you DON'T need to do here is be "timid." Respectful - yes - but definitely not timid. Let er rip!

Being the anally retentive engineer that I am, I can state that as of this morning, I have owned my Mature Metal Jailbird for 149 days, and I have been locked-up in it for 107 of those days. A bit under 72% of the time.

Mrs. KHH takes it off whenever she wants to, and either she puts it back on or she has me put it back on whenever she wants it on. We generally don't do the "partial day" model (something like "wear it during the day but not at night" or the reverse), because she has no concerns about the cage being visible underneath my clothes during the day. I suppose if I wore tight pants it would be, but I don't, so it isn't.

My exercise is not at a gym, and I can understand your concerns about that after work. I can only suggest that you talk about this with your KH and come up with a model that works for YOU. This is DEFINITELY a discussion worth having!

Good luck!

[locked4her55]

We go with the flow. Sometimes I'm in for a week and then out for the weekend. Other times it's been on for a couple of weeks without any removal. Life just gets in the way and she is busy with other things than worrying about sex and I'm ok with that. I don't believe there is a right way or wrong way to do this. Bottom line for us is that I'm ready, willing and able when she wants it. As she puts it, "I'm more focused with it on"

[danj]

Whatever works for you. I'm in and out of my device fairly often, and have been trying to be better "behaved" using the honor system. I enjoy being in the device, but sometimes prefer hanging free, yet the wife is still in full control.

[Shorty]

I usually put mine on when I get home from work and take it off just prior to leaving home. I have been wearing a Looker 2 clone with urethral tube and it doesn't work too well at work. I did however wear it for almost a month straight recently while my wife was out of town. I'm finally ready to order a Jailbird from MM and hopefully it will be wearable 24/7.

[Finn]

I have worn mine for 3 months straight, but for whatever reason, nowadays I can't manage more than 3 days without getting an inflamed ball-sack. I'd like to be locked about 2 weeks out of a month, but can't afford to go buy a new device and see if it's any better. We ended up using an honour system. I made a vow to give up masturbation, orgasm (I get the odd ruined one) and penetrative sex. I love the feeling and symbolism of being locked. I love giving orgasms while locked, but I don't seem to be able to be locked as much as I'd like. My girl has gotten really into tease and denial though, so she's liking me unlocked, but stuck on the honour system.

[TheToy]

It' s taken about three years for me to be kept locked 24/7, letout for cleaning and servicing her needs. The honer system would not work for me wanking is just to much to resist.