Feeling Bad about having Ogasms now?

[ChastizedRob]

For the last 2.5 years my wife has locked me. This year she has me on a once a month real orgasm plan so that I only am allowed 12 real Os this year. She (and I) have perfected giving me ruined Os that give my zero pleasure but allow me to continue to service her to more real Os for her. So far this year she has had 53 Os to 6 for me. (She let me have 2 real Os back-to-back twice when she was feeling generous knowing one real O per month does little to satisfy me)

She told me today that May 16 will be my big day this month. Of couse I am very happy to know that and my mild will ramp up the total joy of getting enjoy an orgasm inside her on that big day. However, the last few months I have found a day or two before the big day I get kinda sad knowing it will soon be all over and I'll have another (for me) long wait of about 30 days till the net one. Of course once we begin our fun I greatly enjoy it and nothing will stop me from enjoying that real O!!! Once I get started I'd rape her even if she tried to stop me and she enjoy's seeing that determination.

I was wondering if anyone else got kinda depressed a few days before being allowed a real O? Of course that assumes they are told when they get one. My wife kinda needs to tell me in advance so I can work from home that day and play while the kids are in school so I can totally enjoy it.

Best Regards, Rob

[sherulestherooster]

I don't want to know when she will allow me to come. I prefer getting a handjob, because she has 100% control and there is nothing I can do about it. I do like it when she teases me, it makes me think she has determined my fate and it is on a 'need to know' basis, and I don't need to know. This is probably the longest I've been denied, certainly the longest I've gone without being allowed inside her, and it's fun to just go with the flow.

I have felt bad following an orgasm after a denial period. The letdown in my submissive feelings can be disappointing. Sometimes the anticipation makes the actual event a letdown, another reason I prefer not to know. On the other hand, I've had some pretty spectacular orgasms that have resulted from a prolonged period of tease and denial. So it depends

[Aarkey]

I have definitely experienced an emotional let down when a period of chastity ends. Even though sometimes I am at a point where physically I'm struggling with the feelings, and I believe I actually *need* a release.

Perhaps it might be less of a let down for you if you didn't know when the release was coming at all? Just a thought...

[reeve]

I havent gone to the point of no orgasms a whole month but I notice a bit of a disapointment if I get to orgasm.
Most of the time I rather be denied even if she has my dick in her mouth and I'm about to cum.
I dont feel depressed about it tho, but I can feel a little bit down after I had an orgasm but then I just sleep it off lol

[locked4her55]

For chastity to work for us there must be a balance. Yes I too sometimes feel a loss when I am allowed to orgasm but I also must remember my wife loves to have me cum inside of her. As mentioned many times before on this Forum, for it to be successful it must work for both parties.

[Finn]

We just stick to the odd (0-2 a month) ruined orgasms for me. If I hold the pc muscle right and stop the orgasm and part of the ejaculation, I don't get any mood/energy drop. If I do it wrong, I do get a real drop. I've given up full orgasms at this point. Partly because my wife doesn't want me getting off with her, or my sub and partly because I do have a fairly big drop that can take a few days or more to get out from under. A long denial period, plus a big orgasm can have a real effect on my mood. Going orgasmless (9 months now) has me energized and in a decent mood in general. I wish I was better at the whole Tantric meditating the sexual energy into something more positive, but still, it's working fine.

[RegularJoe]

I never know when I'm going to be allowed to have one, though it's constantly what I think about (that, and an intense desire to masturbate....something I very seldom actually did before being caged....back when I was 'getting some' several times a week). At times I've been sorely tempted to find a way to get out of the device, but I know she'll carry through with her threat to have it modified for the anti-pullout system if I did so. Part of me finds the thought very stimulating, but I know I would soon have serious regrets. Erections in my current set-up are quite painful enough.

Beth loves to imply that my 'lucky day' is coming up, do the lead-up, then arbitrarily deny relief. When I am finally allowed a rare orgasm, it is with seizure level intensity. There's no depression after that, but rather a very rapid return to nearly continuous sexual frustration.

One benefit though, I sure as hell don't think about work stress, as I once did.