New Steelheart new beginning

[locked4her55]

though I have to confess there is a part of me that enjoys the "burden" of maintaining my cleanliness and skin health while in chastity. That kind of "sacrifice" makes the control, and subsequently, my submission seem all that much more real.

I agree!

[Atone]

Thanks for the in depth reply. It definitely sounds like a good bit more work than my jailbird, though I have to confess there is a part of me that enjoys the "burden" of maintaining my cleanliness and skin health while in chastity. That kind of "sacrifice" makes the control, and subsequently, my submission seem all that much more real.

It sounds like a lot but really doesn't take much time. I would guess that it adds about 5 minutes total each day. I was in a Jailbird for a long time (around a year or so) and it was really, really easy to keep clean. I've been in a steelheart for around two years now and have no intention of going to anything else (except maybe a different sized steelheart). I do find the steelheart to be more comfortable than the jailbird, less places for skin to poke out and be rubbed. I was in a rather snug jailbird though so that might not apply to everyone.

Also, the experience of wearing a steelheart is totally different than a jailbird. The smoothness, total lack of touch, and lack of visibility create a very different mental experience. Not necessarily better but certainly different.

[steph17]

This is day 7 of my one month trial and I have no real issues with the steelheart 2, I think this may be the best trapped ball device I have used, It is fairly comfortable compared to all the other ball trap devices I own and it has taken very little time to become accustomed to wearing it full time, but then you have to take in to account that I often wear ball trap chastity devices.
It will be Thursday evening before it comes off for cleaning again and if as I expect everything is in good shape it could well be that it is not removed until the month is up or she my kh/wife decides.
My kh/wife has been very strict with her rules this time and wont remove the tube for play sessions so it is nearly all attention on her,
I still have to say she is good at turning me on without touching my cock and I find that I often find myself dry humping and it seems to amuse her.
Ah well good things COME to those who wait, but I never have had much patience.

[steph17]

I am on day 9 now and it is feeling like the steelheart 2 is part of me,I think I would find it strange to now reach down and feel a penis, It is now the case that sex is on my mind full time and I have almost 3 weeks to go and as it seems I can keep clean without removing the tube I dont expect I will see my penis till the full month is up.
This is the most securely locked I have ever felt I genuinely cannot get my penis out of the tube or get any access to the pleasure points and I am a bit of an Houdini when it comes to escaping these devices.
Short of destroying it by cutting or drilling it I am beat and I am not keen on using power tools that close to my junk.
If she my kh/wife would let us have more play time it would be easier to cope with the frustration but it has to go at her pace this time, I have been looking at an aneros and thinking I might buy one to get some pleasure.

[TwistedMister]

I have been looking at an aneros and thinking I might buy one to get some pleasure.

Having recently purchased something similar to see what it might be like, I think that "pleasure" is not quite the way to describe it. I found that it only made me more frustrated and even more desirous of stimulation and orgasm. YMMV.

[steph17]

I have not discussed the aneros idea with my kh/wife, lets hope she goes for it.

[TwistedMister]

I have not discussed the aneros idea with my kh/wife, lets hope she goes for it.

LOL, this *could* be a 'Be careful what you wish for' moment. Just sayin'.

[steph17]

Last night when we went to bed I decided because I was feeling frustrated and horny to try and talk my way out of the device, I promised I would not come and that I would put the tube back on we she decided.
We both talked for 10 minutes but at the end she just said NO it is not coming off and then offered some back door action with a prostate massage toy, But I had got all moody at not being let out and the action just really died out.
So it was my loss and my fault, she really had a determined tone in her voice last night and this morning when everything had calmed down she again told me it was her decision as to when the steelheart gets removed.
She did also tell me that I would have said later if she had removed the device that she should have stuck to her guns as it was her choice.
I dont know if she is right but I do know I still feel horny and more frustrated and as much as I wanted her to keep me locked I now want play with or use my cock, Given the chance I would wank or have intercourse in a second, she loves getting licked and sucked and I love doing it, but I think I need a bit of action.
I am at this moment sitting at work locked and frustrated and loving the feeling but I cannot focus on work.

[steph17]

To get away from my sexual ramblings here is an update on the steelheart 2, It has proven easy to wear on a daily bases, you do feel the odd small pinch occasionally but other than that no real problems wearing it, you are certainly aware you have it on most of the time.
Keeping it clean and smell free has been no big deal as I have said earlier a daily shower and a couple of rinses a day keeps everything fresh and a little E45 around the area stops any dry skin.
Just to ramble a small amount I did try out an idea I had when my kh/wife left for work yesterday, I got out her magic wand and tried pressing it to the tip of the tube just where the glans are, but sad to say it done nothing for me, maybe only add a little to the frustration.

[steph17]

My kh/wife has joined the forum so she can ask questions about the lifestyle, so things might get interesting.