Just starting out

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aryxa
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Just starting out

Post by aryxa »

So... I think I finally talked her (my wife) into letting me venture into male chastity. She doesn't seem excited or overly interested but didn't say no. I'm going to be sizing and purchasing a Queens Keep from Mature Metal -- just ordered the sizing rings today!!

What I do know from our 4 years of vanilla marriage is that she's not interested in receiving oral at all.. zero; zip; zilch.. in her words "It does nothing for her and feels funny". I know this may be a long shot but wondering if anyone else out there is or has been in the same boat and perhaps has a suggestion or words of advice to take?

Thanks in advance,
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poor
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Re: Just starting out

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Yep. I have a similar situation - I'd love to be there but in truth it would be more about satisfying my own ego as giving her something she doesn't like is no gift at all. Despite what many will tell you it isn't what every woman needs.

I'd counsel starting with a CBxxx device. For all their faults (actually very little to criticise) it'll allow you to sort your sizing out before spending big bucks. Most find after a few weeks that they are wearing a smaller back ring/spacer than they started with. On the CBxxx this is no problem or extra cost to adjust. You can always go custom when it breaks...(awaits flack).
poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another
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locked4her55
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Re: Just starting out

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poor wrote:I'd counsel starting with a CBxxx device. For all their faults (actually very little to criticise) it'll allow you to sort your sizing out before spending big bucks. Most find after a few weeks that they are wearing a smaller back ring/spacer than they started with. On the CBxxx this is no problem or extra cost to adjust. You can always go custom when it breaks...(awaits flack).

Agree!
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happyman1
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Re: Just starting out

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poor wrote:Yep. I have a similar situation - I'd love to be there but in truth it would be more about satisfying my own ego as giving her something she doesn't like is no gift at all. Despite what many will tell you it isn't what every woman needs.

I'd counsel starting with a CBxxx device. For all their faults (actually very little to criticise) it'll allow you to sort your sizing out before spending big bucks. Most find after a few weeks that they are wearing a smaller back ring/spacer than they started with. On the CBxxx this is no problem or extra cost to adjust. You can always go custom when it breaks...(awaits flack).
I agree also.
currently in a CB6000s