I Could Not Express It

[michaelnmelissa]

Melissa recently set me free for a short time. She stroked me to full length and asked me if it felt good to be hard again. Oh, wow, did it. To be able to stretch out a bit...I know I thanked her again and again for it. It's so rare now just for me to have that much. I so enjoyed being free.

But then, when it came time to be locked in again, I was thrilled. Melissa asked me why I was since I liked being free so much. I could not explain clearly. I do know that moment right before I start to go back in to the device is truly exciting...having the opening to the device right there at the head of my penis. And it's so...satisfying when I am finally calm enough to manage to slide myself into the cool steel. I have to work my skin a bit, pulling here and tugging there, before I can get the cage into place to be locked. And then, there I am again. Locked in for I don't know how long. It all feels good. The weight. The control. I thanked her for keeping me under wraps.

How would you guys explain it? How it feels good to be free, but just as good - maybe better - to be locked?

Michael

[betheball]

So, am about at 35 days as well, more or less, caged in metal

KH went on a trip on Monday am, taking key, and only key, with her. Short of bolt cutters, I'm locked down good for a while. Having been on honor system for last few days before she left, the device quickly provides calm. There's the inevitable midnight wood wake-up call, but the rest of the time produces a calm that starts after the lock clicks and the initial caged erection ebbs. (the locking process still causes me to fill up the cage ...which is weird, as I can shrink quickly to fit in it - ice or other techniques seem like overkill. ) Typically, a quick run of the metal under cold water prior to locking in is all that's needed to cause "shrinkage". But as soon as that lock closes, it's like the boundary needs to be tested, and pressurized. This last for a good first 20 min. From then on, it's typically all good.

When my KH asks, I describe it as though she, or someone strong and unrelenting, has their hand around me. They are not pulling, or stroking, or stimulating. But neither can I. Yes, I even forget at times that it's there. But then a movement, or a twitch reminds me that I am still in the grip of this strong force. And there's not much I can, or want to do about it. Being uncaged, on honor or not, cumming or not, feels very lonely most days. The feeling of being locked...is very comforting, very calming, and yes, very addictive.

With all the strange vices out there, it seems so strange that something so calming, and so positive in so many ways, is outside the mainstream, and therefore, taboo. Thumper is on to something, that "everyone should do this" - at least to try it. Just wish there was a way to make this more "vanilla" to the rest of the world!

btb

[danj]

It does feel good to be free, but I agree, it often feels better to be locked. For me, there is just something very powerful about being kept for my wife. Looking down at it, and knowing that yes, I "carry" it...but it's hers, not mine. Patiently waiting for release. Something so erotic, so exciting about having all my sexual energy totally contained and controlled by my beautiful wife. It's quite the experience!

[celticqueens_sub]

Melissa recently set me free for a short time. She stroked me to full length and asked me if it felt good to be hard again. Oh, wow, did it. To be able to stretch out a bit...I know I thanked her again and again for it. It's so rare now just for me to have that much. I so enjoyed being free.

But then, when it came time to be locked in again, I was thrilled. Melissa asked me why I was since I liked being free so much. I could not explain clearly. I do know that moment right before I start to go back in to the device is truly exciting...having the opening to the device right there at the head of my penis. And it's so...satisfying when I am finally calm enough to manage to slide myself into the cool steel. I have to work my skin a bit, pulling here and tugging there, before I can get the cage into place to be locked. And then, there I am again. Locked in for I don't know how long. It all feels good. The weight. The control. I thanked her for keeping me under wraps.

How would you guys explain it? How it feels good to be free, but just as good - maybe better - to be locked?

Michael

I recently blogged about being uncaged foir medical issues and it made me feel very uncomfortable being out of the cage. The fundamental feeling was not being as owned and controlled from afar by CQ as I feel when I am locked up.

I also agree there is something about the feeling of putting the device back on. For me it brings me back into centre and helps me acknowledge my place in our marriage and reminds me of the respect and attention that CQ deserves from me and the pleasure she can deliver to me when she wants me to have such things.

The true psychology of it all is beyond me to be honest. All I know is that being locked up, being controlled in respect of when I orgasm makes me feel 'right' and it makes our marriage work well. What more could I possibly want?