How to avoid (or limit) night erections?

[bitsy0]

I could handle waking up 1 or 2 times per night, but 5-6 is really TOO MUCH.
This is my tipical night (in chastity):
- go to bed @ midnight
- wake up @ 3.00 (> sit, 1 minute to relax, return to sleep)
- wake up @ 4.30 (> sit, 1 minute to relax, return to sleep)
- wake up @ 6.00 (> sit, 1 minute to relax, return to sleep)
- wake up @ 7.00 (> sit, 1 minute to relax, return to sleep)
- wake up @ 7.30 (...)
...

Initially, I can sleep 2-3 hours, because I'm very tired and my sleep is deep. Then, the sleep time start decreasing, until I can't sleep for more than 30 minutes.
It's really hard to (even) think of such a living way.

By the way, I love sleeping "facing down", but it's the worst choice with the belt on, so I'm trying different positions. I hate sleeping "facing up", I really need at least 1 hour to fall asleep, in this position (not because of the belt). At the moment I'm trying a 50-50 choice: side-way.
Any suggestions?
Ice over the boxers?

[TwistedMister]

The only way I've found to avoid being woken so often is a less constrictive base ring. Erections still occur, but they generally aren't so painful as to wake me. I was 'training' to use smaller rings, but I need to do a repair job (broke at the hinge).

[bitsy0]

It's an anatomycal 47mm
If I used a larger ring, the belt would hardly stay on, and it would be super easy to take it off(out?)

[wishful4]

I'm afraid the only thing that will help is "time". After a while, the little head will figure out it's not comfortable to fully erect at night while locked. It may partially erect, which is not as bad. You will learn to control it.

[RegularJoe]

Or...you could take the damn thing off...and get some sleep. I wake up most every night in a state of arousal (night boners as well as her pre-sleep teasing and denial). She has a hard and fast policy that if I wake up between midnight and 3 am, she's available for rear entry (and some relief for me)....of course that also means licking up her sloppy snatch first thing in the morning (while she watches the news and enjoys her first cup of coffee) because she wants to go back to sleep after I make a 'night deposit'. Lots of times I don't take advantage of her policy despite my desperate state....because she's sleeping so soundly and I hate to disturb her with my frantic thrusting. The woman is a saint as far as I'm concerned.

[kept4her]

The longer you wear it the more your body gets use to the device and not waking you up as much. I go from much like you with 4-5 wake ups each night to now, one around 3:30 and one around 6:00 which my alarm goes off at 6:15 so not that bad. After about 2-3 weeks, I sometimes sleep the whole night or wake up once and just have to go to the bathroom and right back to bed.

Like Wishful4 said... "time" .....

[Riverbed]

First of all, Joe - agreed - you wife is an incredibly kinky saint.

Me? Going on 6 months in chastity, with a wonderful vanilla wife with a very low sex drive (mostly medical reasons).
Each chaste period has lasted ~3 weeks, but with increasing prompting of "I actually want you to be cruel to me.." has finally got through to her. For the first time (since age 13?) I am past 30 days and high as a kite.

The night time pain gets better, but very slowly. Maybe I need to be more accurately sized, but I am between two rings in the CB6K. One is way too loose during the day, but lets me sleep. The other is comfortable and secure but wakes me up. I have committed to security.

I suggest you take my approach and make better use of your sleepless mornings..

- wake up @ 4.00 ( roll over, think about baseball, and how much the red sox sucked this year so the swelling in your cage goes down and you can return to sleep)
- wake up @ 4.30 ( listen to my wife and her cute snores, slowly softly rub her back without waking her up)
- wake up @ 5.00 ( after staring at her and realizing the pain in your cage is getting unbearable, go down stairs, do a load of laundry, start the bread machine and fill the dishwasher)
- wake up @ 6.00 (make coffee and watch old star trek on Netflix)
7AM family wakes up, chaos begins.

[TwistedMister]

First of all, Joe - agreed - you wife is an incredibly kinky saint.

Yeah, I think I'd like to stay at Joe's house for a while (Imagine the things she could get up to then).

...and then have his wife get together with mine and give her some pointers.

[Linus]

The longer you wear it the more your body gets use to the device and not waking you up as much.

Like Wishful4 said... "time" .....

Same here! This is the first time that I have had no release since past 31 days precisely. And still counting. On one side my urge to orgasm is increasing, but on the other side I am now so comfortable with my device, that I hardly feel whether I'm wearing one. I hope eventually my willy doesn't shrink !!

[bitsy0]

I'm afraid the only thing that will help is "time".

If you say that time can guarantee improvements, than I am happy to hear this I will wait...

Or...you could take the damn thing off...and get some sleep.

This is unfortunately out of question: I don't live with my mistress, and she doesn't allow me to remove the device when I'm alone.

Thanks for all your answers