Help Selecting Size of Base Ring for the Jail Bird device

[wishful4]

Alex,

Sounds like the two of you are off to a great start. In time, erections when installing the device will be less of a problem. However, attempted erections while locked will only increase. Eventually, he will attempt to erect just from holding hands with you, getting a sexy look from you, or just being in the same room with you. Be prepared to be smothered with attention. I can't explain why it happens, it just does. Enjoy!!

[locked4her55]

MM's Jail Bird arrived yesterday. High Security Screw still on backorder but I am fully secured utilizing an external brass lock.

Been locked in a CB6000s on and off (mostly on) for the past 24 months which I now know was 23 months too long. I was very happy in my CB after I adjusted it properly. Most of the time I barely knew it was there but I did have those sharp pinches every once and a while that would send me wincing to the bathroom for an adjustment. My major concern with the CB was hygine. My wife/KH liked to keep me locked up sometimes for several weeks at a time with no release. Keeping myself clean was challanging.

So with some trepidation I introduced my very vanilla wife to the Mature Metal website back in February. To my surprise she helped me shop for a new device like we were picking out a new dishwasher. She compared various models and the benefits of each one. She totally blew me away with her interest in finding the right CD for us. The order was placed by me with some concerns about the fit. I wasn't sure anything could be more comfortable than my CB6000s. I was wrong. My Jail Bird is absolutely wonderful. Fits perfect and MM was right there each time I had a question or concern about my order.

The Jail Bird arrived and my wife removed the device from the little red bag with a BIG on her face. She remarked "WOW, you are really gonna like this". She unlocked my CB6000s, I took a shower and the Jail Bird went right on. Fit like a glove, perfect! Later that evening we played with no release for me. She said over and over how happy she was that we did this and how good it looked on me. She expressed how she had put up with the plastic for so long but was now very happy that I will be secured in Stainless Steel. The ability for me to keep myself cleaner down there along with the fun she is now having running her fingernails between the bars.

Let's just say we have begun a new chapter in our chastity lifestyle.

Thanks Mature Metal for a GREAT product and WONDERFUL customer service.

[Linus]

My first device itself is jailbird. I have not tried any other devices.
I am using 50 mm ring. However when my penis is flaccid, the device feels lose & I fear it might slip off. So I tried the 45 mm ring. But it is too tight for my scrotum & even a slightest erection becomes painful.
Do you think I should use the 45 mm ring? Will the pain factor reduce gradually once I get used to it? Is there any harm in the ring being too tight? An advice is requested from the jailbird users.

[gummicouple]

Alex,

Sounds like the two of you are off to a great start. In time, erections when installing the device will be less of a problem. However, attempted erections while locked will only increase. Eventually, he will attempt to erect just from holding hands with you, getting a sexy look from you, or just being in the same room with you. Be prepared to be smothered with attention. I can't explain why it happens, it just does. Enjoy!!

Dear Wishful4,

Thank you for your reply. I am interested in knowing how often you wear your device and the arrangement that the two of you have that works for you. Do you have any say in when you wear the device?

Warm regards,

~Alex

[wishful4]

Dear Wishful4,

Thank you for your reply. I am interested in knowing how often you wear your device and the arrangement that the two of you have that works for you. Do you have any say in when you wear the device?

Warm regards,

~Alex

We have a working agreement (published somewhere on this forum) that says I will wear the device at all times while at home and elsewhere should she require it. I have slept in my CD every night this year except for a couple of nights when we had guests. I am generally not allowed to shower unlocked. My spouse requires that I remove my CD if we leave our home together because she is not comfortable with my wearing it outside the home except for short trips. For a little more perspective, we are retired and are usually together 24/7. On average, I am probably locked 18-20 hrs per day. She is in total control of my CD and my orgasms and tends to favor long periods between releases. I am currently on week 6. There have been special circumstances such as traveling where I have been unlocked for longer periods. She tries to avoid unlocked and alone situations where I would be prone to please myself. That keeps my focus entirely on pleasing her and looking forward to my next orgasm.

[gummicouple]

Dear Wishful4,

It sounds like you have a lovely arrangement with your wife! It is nice to hear of married couples who have enriched their lives with a chastity device and the wife controlling things. Being retired must be nice! We are still a few years away from that, but eventually we'll get there.

Best wishes for continued happiness.

Warm regards,

~Alex

[wishful4]

Dear Wishful4,

It sounds like you have a lovely arrangement with your wife! It is nice to hear of married couples who have enriched their lives with a chastity device and the wife controlling things. Being retired must be nice! We are still a few years away from that, but eventually we'll get there.

Best wishes for continued happiness.

Warm regards,

~Alex

Alex,
Thanks for the kind words. We have often wished we had discovered this lifestyle many years ago. Although our libidos are not what they used to be, we are making the best of what we have. Incorporating chastity in our lifestyle is going well, and the our growing D/s relationship is happening, but at a very slow pace. As I'm sure you are aware, us guys get in a big hurry for everything. I have mucked things up several times already by getting too far ahead of myself. She says I smother her from time to time. So, I'm trying to do better, go slow, and take cues from her while at the same time doing everything I can for her around the home. I would very much like to hear about the dynamics of your D/s relationship from a dominant female perspective and how its works for the two of you. If you don't wish to discuss it here, I would welcome a PM.

[gummicouple]

Hello Wishful,

I am sorry that I didn't notice your post until now, when I posted about our new Jail Bird that arrived today.

Regarding your question about our relationship, what would you like to know? I will say that we are a happily married couple and do most things together. I am sexually dominant and we are experienced bdsm players, but in everyday life, we handle things together, such as finances, shopping, etc. I usually pick the hotels and amenities on our vacations, however! He sometimes wants to go too cheap!

Warm regards,

~Alex