Reflections at Six Weeks

[wishful4]

I have not been posting much lately, but today will mark my sixth week of chastity. Not sure how long this cycle will be. Yes, I am very needy and my KH/Spouse is very careful to not allow any unsupervised time unlocked. It is high school reunion season here and this weekend is full of them. Although she doesn't talk much about our relationship to others, a former female classmate made a comment at our event last evening about how soft my spouse's hands were. Several other women showed the roughness in theirs. My spouse smiled at me and told them that I do most of the housework for her. They were amazed and commented how lucky she was. The matter was dropped and they went on to other subjects. Later, at home, she asked if she embarrassed me saying that to them. I told her that I am proud of what I do for her and really don't care who knows. As we sat on the sofa having a cocktail after arriving home, she said she feels very lucky to have me and could never be this lucky again if something happened to me. It made me so proud to hear her say that and I told her I'm the lucky one. It was unusual because she is generally not a big talker about our relationship. We have been married a long time so I guess we just feel comfortable and secure with each other. Last night I lay in bed thinking about it for hours with my cock throbbing in the cage.

[Thypuc]

Awesome story, we have been in chastity going on 3 weeks. I feel since our change my desire got my wife has grown. I feel being in the presence of a Goddess is something most men would not understand or could handle. You have to put all her needs and thoughts before yours. Even though she is gained this control over me, our passion has returned more intense than ever before. This after 20 years married.

[BethK]

a former female classmate made a comment at our event last evening about how soft my spouse's hands were. Several other women showed the roughness in theirs. My spouse smiled at me and told them that I do most of the housework for her.

After Anymouse had read your post, he mentioned it to me. We compared hands, and mine are much softer than his. He brought up that he does most of the housework, which I'm sure is part of it.

A bigger part of the key to my soft hands is that every other day or so, he gives my hands an hour-long "treatment" of olive oil and human protein, continually applied to my hands, as part of the "ruined orgasm" practice that goes with chastity as we're doing it.

Maybe we should patent these skin softening treatments.

BethK

[cb6000s]

Maybe we should patent these skin softening treatments.
BethK

I don't think that would work because, in my experience, the product has to be fresh in order to work. Therefore, you don't have a product that you can bottle and sell which would be patentable.

However, you may still have a copyright claim to the process.

[gummicouple]

I have not been posting much lately, but today will mark my sixth week of chastity. Not sure how long this cycle will be. Yes, I am very needy and my KH/Spouse is very careful to not allow any unsupervised time unlocked. It is high school reunion season here and this weekend is full of them. Although she doesn't talk much about our relationship to others, a former female classmate made a comment at our event last evening about how soft my spouse's hands were. Several other women showed the roughness in theirs. My spouse smiled at me and told them that I do most of the housework for her. They were amazed and commented how lucky she was. The matter was dropped and they went on to other subjects. Later, at home, she asked if she embarrassed me saying that to them. I told her that I am proud of what I do for her and really don't care who knows. As we sat on the sofa having a cocktail after arriving home, she said she feels very lucky to have me and could never be this lucky again if something happened to me. It made me so proud to hear her say that and I told her I'm the lucky one. It was unusual because she is generally not a big talker about our relationship. We have been married a long time so I guess we just feel comfortable and secure with each other. Last night I lay in bed thinking about it for hours with my cock throbbing in the cage.

What a lovely post. Do you think that wearing the device has improved the communication with your wife? I try to encourage my husband to discuss his fantasies with me. I would rather experience them with him than have him experience them with someone else!

When you say that you have been in chastity for six weeks, does that mean that you have not had a release for six weeks? That would be a long time! I like your comment "Last night I lay in bed thinking about it for hours with my cock throbbing in the cage"!

Warm regards,

~Alex

[wishful4]

Do you think that wearing the device has improved the communication with your wife?

When you say that you have been in chastity for six weeks, does that mean that you have not had a release for six weeks?

Warm regards,

~Alex

Hello Alex,

My spouse probably thinks I communicate too much when I'm locked and very needy. I'm constantly kissing her neck, touching her, trying to talk, even leaving the occasional love poem and rose on her pillow. The other day, as I was ironing her blouse and slacks, she came in, giggled and said, you keep this up and I'm never going to let you cum. She is not a big communicator unless it is about something that makes her unhappy. Maybe this is best, because it sure keeps me on edge and on my toes trying to please her.

I have not had an orgasm for a little over six weeks. She says maybe next Monday we will have some fun. I do get a little break from the device during the day sometimes, but I am required to sleep locked every night, no exceptions. Smart lady, she knows I would be up in the wee hours of the morning spurting all over the bathroom if I were unlocked.

[gummicouple]

Wishful4,

Your wife is lucky that you are so devoted to her! What woman doesn't like to be romanced by their husband?

I can't believe you've gone six weeks without a release! I don't think my husband has ever gone more than a few days without a release, unless he is sick with the flu. He says he would like me to lock him up and make him wait longer, but I am not sure I believe him. While I enjoy the extra attention while he is locked, I don't want to lock him up and then have him complain about it. I do enjoy seeing him locked in his metal cage. I think it looks very sexy and it's fun to go out with him locked under his clothes. I have been using the Bird Cage from Extreme Restraints on weekends, but we are both ready for a better cage. The one we have is too small and I am tired of having to ice him down just to get him in. I am going to order a Jail Bird from Mature Metal and will write about it on the other topic.

Warm regards,

~Alex

[locked4her55]

He says he would like me to lock him up and make him wait longer, but I am not sure I believe him.

Believe him

I am going to order a Jail Bird from Mature Metal

Great move if you want to help him achieve a longer period being locked up.

[danj]

He says he would like me to lock him up and make him wait longer, but I am not sure I believe him.

Believe him

I agree. I think many of us actually prefer to be kept waiting. Maybe not weeks or months, but adding a few days beyond what you "think" he wants/expects can be very exciting. My wife likes shorter cycles between orgasms, but I really love when she surprises me and adds a day or two (or a few more than that!)

[gummicouple]

To All,

I just ordered a Jail Bird from Mature Metal. We are taking an anniversary trip in late September, so hopefully it will be here in time. I think I will tell my husband about it this weekend when we go out for dinner.

Thanks to all of you who provided helpful suggestions on this forum. I spent some time reading through the discussions and there was a lot of good information.

Warm regards,

~Alex