Introduction into chastity

Homer79 · Post by **Homer79** » Tue Jul 17, 2012 10:43 am

Hi,

I'm just looking for a little advice before I delve into what my partner is what I think my partner has finally
come around to. We've been seeing each other for about 8 months. She is new at being submissive and we've
been going at things slowly and she's loved it.
She does find it difficult to communicate what she wants and her ideas, we often find that we txt each other
more than talk about it. Shes only just asked about getting a chastity belt after I jokingly showed her a picture of one and said look what i've ordered for you a few months ago.
I dont want to spend loads of money on a custom belt until I'm sure its right for her. In an ideal world I would,
but money doesnt grow on trees. As an introduction I thought a cheaper adjustable one thats flooded the market might be ok just to get started
I cant go locking her up 24/7 as her job doesnt allow for such things, but on the odd day she at home alone would be far more suitable. How long would it be acceptable for her to get used to it for a whole day??? Ive not seen any guide on how to train for such things.

many thanks

Sir Chaste · Post by **Sir Chaste** » Wed Jul 18, 2012 9:45 am

Homer79: Unfortunately, I do not believe that anyone here can provide you with the information that you are looking for. These Forums are dedicated to the exploration of Male Chastity (MC), and the ways in which it can improve the intimate sexual relationships of the members. Accordingly, the wearing of women's chastity belts is not usually discussed here. I would suggest that you go onto the FetLife website, and read some of the groups there that are devoted to Female Chastity.

Post by **Tom Allen** » Wed Jul 18, 2012 11:46 am

Mike Bekoff wrote:These Forums are dedicated to the exploration of Male Chastity (MC), and the ways in which it can improve the intimate sexual relationships of the members. Accordingly, the wearing of women's chastity belts is not discussed here.

Not so fast there, Mike. The only reason we don't really discuss it much is because we don't have many female chastity participants around here.

There *are*, however, some resources available, besides Fetlife. I'll post them as soon as I can look them up.

Post by **celticqueens_sub** » Wed Jul 18, 2012 2:24 pm

Homer79 wrote:Hi,

I'm just looking for a little advice before I delve into what my partner is what I think my partner has finally
come around to. We've been seeing each other for about 8 months. She is new at being submissive and we've
been going at things slowly and she's loved it.
She does find it difficult to communicate what she wants and her ideas, we often find that we txt each other
more than talk about it. Shes only just asked about getting a chastity belt after I jokingly showed her a picture of one and said look what i've ordered for you a few months ago.
I dont want to spend loads of money on a custom belt until I'm sure its right for her. In an ideal world I would,
but money doesnt grow on trees. As an introduction I thought a cheaper adjustable one thats flooded the market might be ok just to get started
I cant go locking her up 24/7 as her job doesnt allow for such things, but on the odd day she at home alone would be far more suitable. How long would it be acceptable for her to get used to it for a whole day??? Ive not seen any guide on how to train for such things.

many thanks

Homer 79 just do a quick search on female chastity in the search at the top. There are a few topics on this in the depths of the site Here's one I found for you

http://chastityforums.com/viewtopic.php ... lts#p31385

Whilst this site is mainly Male Chastity, we would encourage any and all discussions on female belts and approaches to the subject so please don't think we are soley Male based, we are not, it is just more widely discussed. Welcome!

Post by **Tom Allen** » Wed Jul 18, 2012 4:27 pm

I knew I would remember:

http://tantalism.org/
This is one of the oldest female orgasm denial resources on the web.

drpowerslave · Post by **drpowerslave** » Thu Jul 19, 2012 5:55 pm

I'm working on getting my wife to take more interest in male chastity and be more cruel and dominant in the bedroom but I think i'm annoying her. any advice?

Post by **TwistedMister** » Fri Jul 20, 2012 2:46 am

drpowerslave wrote:I'm working on getting my wife to take more interest in male chastity and be more cruel and dominant in the bedroom but I think i'm annoying her. any advice?

Kind of tough to give advice when we know so little about you and her, and where you're at with this sort of thing.

Post by **Tom Allen** » Fri Jul 20, 2012 8:57 am

drpowerslave wrote:I'm working on getting my wife to take more interest in male chastity and be more cruel and dominant in the bedroom but I think i'm annoying her. any advice?

Stop annoying her.

Have you looked into any of the chastity/keyholder books on the market? I know that Sarah Jameson catches some flack for being overly commercial, but her initial book "Be Careful What You Wish For" really is a good intro for chastity newbs, and explains to vanilla-ish women some of the whys and hows in an easy to understand manner.

Anymouse · Post by **Anymouse** » Fri Jul 20, 2012 9:37 am

drpowerslave wrote:I'm working on getting my wife to take more interest in male chastity and be more cruel and dominant in the bedroom but I think i'm annoying her. any advice?

Though I live the vida vanilla, I have heard it said that "the cruelest thing a sadist can do is refuse to punish a masochist."

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