(I posted this on OD.com but duidn't get much of a response. Curious to get you're input.)
Have you ever heard the theory that in fiction there are only seven fundamental plots for a story?
I was thinking about this recently… If you take out all of the superfluous embellishment that would take the practice of OD outside of purely vanilla, you are left with (by my count) just five fundamental teases, each with its own variants. And while I’m interested in getting input from y’all, in case I’ve missed any, as far as I can tell, everything else is a variation of one of these five. Also… by assuming vanilla, I am assuming that we leave out ANYTHING that might quick out pretty much ANYONE: pain, humiliation, sissification, forced-bi, anal, cuckolding, etc… I’m only allowing for two people, a Chastity Device of some sort, didlos or toys and just the lightest restraints in terms of any bondage.
1) Repeated edging: This is perhaps the most obvious and self-explanatory. The man is brought to the edge numerous times and not allowed to cum. Obvious variations include: He could be restrained or not; the edges could be brought about by hand, mouth or penetration. (Obviously this could easily be done by the man alone as well.) The archetypical video example of this, IMO, is http://xxxbunker.com/1667123. (http://xhamster.com/movies/1073189/chas ... enial.html one is a close second)
2) Sensual tease: This is different form the first in the male may never reached an edge, nor even be removed from their cage. They are merely kept aroused for an extended period of time. Obvious variations are the same as: He could be restrained or not; the stimulation could be brought about by hand, mouth or penetration and does not even have to be on the genitals; this could also be done with or without the male remaining caged. The archetypical video example of this, IMO, is http://www.alphaporno.com/videos/redhea ... omoid=1560. There is no attempt to edge the guy, just to give him enough sensation to really turn him on, and then take things no farther.
3) Voyeuristic: This is one in which the male receives no stimulation, and is made to watch as the female bring herself to orgasm. She could do this with her fingers, a toy or vibrator and the male could be restrained or not, caged or not, but is not allowed to touched either himself or her. (This is another one that is commonly done solo: A caged male looking at porn, for example.) The archetypical video example of this, IMO, is http://www.hardsextube.com/video/838971/. (OK - minus the domination talk, if you want to be a purist about it.)
4) Shared: This is similar to (3) except that the man is made to bring about the female’s orgasm. This could be done with fingers, a toy, vibrator or oral – and possibly penetration that doesn’t result in his orgasm. (The difference between this and (1) is purpose: her pleasure versus his edging.) Videos of men bringing women to orgasm are too numerous to narrow down. And he could be caged or not.
5) Substitution: This is where the female bring herself to orgasm with the male’s use of a harness / dildo. This has elements of both (3) and (4), but is far more intimate. Male can be caged… on not (THAT would be interesting!) and may be restrained (and on the bottom) or unrestrained and allowed to lead. The archetypical video example of this,' IMO, is http://xhamster.com/movies/3213340/chastity_tease.html.
Finally, a while back I received an email from Sarah Jameson's mailing list (which I subscribe to.) This is a mind-blowing tease that seems to be a mix of all of them. (Or at least I can’t figure out which category to put it in.) I can’t possibly do it justice in my own words, so I hope she doesn’t mind me using hers:
you lie on your back, get him to kneel between your legs and then take hold of him and use his cock like a dildo, using it to caress yourself. This alone is enough to make his eyes pop out on stalks. For a bit of extra teasing, put your legs over his shoulders so they're wide as can be.
And then, when you are ready... you let him slid in just and inch or so and keep him there, motionless, while you slowly bring yourself to orgasm with your own fingers on your clitoris.
Here's the killer for him: when you cum, he feels your vagina pulsing around his cock...
... and THAT sensation is enough to drive him nuts.
Wow. (Right?)
*wipes brow*
So.. I’m curious… Before you start breaking taboos or making trips to the hardware store, can anyone suggest any fundamental teases that I might have missed?
(BTW... In looking for those vids, becuase I didn't have them bookmarked, I came http://xhamster.com/movies/1269169/whor ... tease.html which seems to be a CAGED variant of what Ms. Jameson was descibing.)
The Fundamental Teases
The Fundamental Teases
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Re: The Fundamental Teases
I don't have anything to add to your fundamental teases but I did recently mention my best "non-orgasm" and it was similar to this only she was on top and used a small vibrator on her clitoris. I could feel a little vibration and all the pulsing around my cock. yes, Wow is about right.Niceguy wrote: Finally, a while back I received an email from Sarah Jameson's mailing list (which I subscribe to.) This is a mind-blowing tease that seems to be a mix of all of them. (Or at least I can’t figure out which category to put it in.) I can’t possibly do it justice in my own words, so I hope she doesn’t mind me using hers:
you lie on your back, get him to kneel between your legs and then take hold of him and use his cock like a dildo, using it to caress yourself. This alone is enough to make his eyes pop out on stalks. For a bit of extra teasing, put your legs over his shoulders so they're wide as can be.
And then, when you are ready... you let him slid in just and inch or so and keep him there, motionless, while you slowly bring yourself to orgasm with your own fingers on your clitoris.
Here's the killer for him: when you cum, he feels your vagina pulsing around his cock...
... and THAT sensation is enough to drive him nuts.
Wow. (Right?)
*wipes brow*
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Re: The Fundamental Teases
One big one has to be Psychological teasing; "Mindfucking" if you like.
Setting it up & shutting it down, promising without delivering, telling me how horny she is and if only there was a man who could, asking for fresh batteries to be brought to the bedroom and being told to return in 30mins with a fresh drink, that sort of thing. Even speculating on the length of lockup can count towards this.
The mere dangle of that key...
Setting it up & shutting it down, promising without delivering, telling me how horny she is and if only there was a man who could, asking for fresh batteries to be brought to the bedroom and being told to return in 30mins with a fresh drink, that sort of thing. Even speculating on the length of lockup can count towards this.
The mere dangle of that key...
poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another
Re: The Fundamental Teases
OMG! Your right!
#6: The MENTAL or NON-PHYSICAL or VERBAL TEASE! Everything from talking dirty, to making (and breaking promises) to steamy e-mails... all that. Every bit of the mental and psychological foreplay, used to build anticipation that may or may not (ever) be satiated!
I didn't even think about that!
(Guess I was thinking with my...? Never mind.
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#6: The MENTAL or NON-PHYSICAL or VERBAL TEASE! Everything from talking dirty, to making (and breaking promises) to steamy e-mails... all that. Every bit of the mental and psychological foreplay, used to build anticipation that may or may not (ever) be satiated!
I didn't even think about that!
(Guess I was thinking with my...? Never mind.
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Re: The Fundamental Teases
My glasses just got fogged up again!
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Ouch! Ouch! (heavy breathing) Ouch!
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What I do is something that might be classified as 1A - Ruined Orgasms.
That's similar to #1, although more than just edging. Oh, I'll edge for a significant amount of time first, but the goal of a "ruined orgasm" is to get the orgasm to start, then "ruin" it somehow. The release comes from the combination of the prostate and other internal parts pumping semen, and the feeling at the end of the penis where it comes out. So, to "ruin" it, you've got to separate those two things. lt leaves the guy feeling a lot of attention, "emptied" and yet oh-so-frustrated.
To see some examples, see http://xhamster.com/movies/1266157/3_ti ... lente.html
There are several ways. One is quite similar to edging, and examples (I believe) were seen in the videos referenced in the original post under item #1, where you just STOP doing anything to the penis when he's very close. It dances around, trying to find stimulation, but it fails to.
The second way is to put a thumb over the end to stop it.
The third is to press firmly on the urethra on the bottom of the penis, such that no (or very little) semen can get by.
The fourth is to firmly press on the prostate from the exterior (on the perineum, behind the testicles) or from the inside via the anus at the very beginning of the pulses.
Note that some of these can be used together. I've pressed the prostate while pressing the urethra while covering the end with a thumb.
After the pulses stop, let it all loose. Semen, or at least seminal fluid, will spurt out. Either stand back or be prepared to be covered with it!
The evidence this is different than an ordinary male orgasm is the lack of a refractory period. He does not "go soft" nor feel satisfied. You can continue with hands or mouth or toys or even tease by sitting on it and giving just a couple of strokes - although this can be risky. A typical session is to "ruin" somewhere between 4 and a dozen orgasms.
I've found the best lubricant to use on my hands is olive oil - right out of the kitchen. For one thing it's good for the skin - his and my hands. For another it's non-toxic, so if I want to use my tongue or even vagina, it's not going to harm anything. We usually do this on a faux-leather covered chair, which cleans up easily with a household cleaner. A lot of quantity will come out - as this is similar to "milking", it doesn't bring about satisfaction but is said to have some health benefits, but about 1/4 cup or 60 ML of fluid is released. I keep some towels or rags nearby to wipe things up, but be prepared to clean that amount up.
I'm going to have to take a hint from the videos, to end a session using ice, before cleaning him up an putting him back in chastity. I've got to keep my assets locked up, you know.
That's similar to #1, although more than just edging. Oh, I'll edge for a significant amount of time first, but the goal of a "ruined orgasm" is to get the orgasm to start, then "ruin" it somehow. The release comes from the combination of the prostate and other internal parts pumping semen, and the feeling at the end of the penis where it comes out. So, to "ruin" it, you've got to separate those two things. lt leaves the guy feeling a lot of attention, "emptied" and yet oh-so-frustrated.
To see some examples, see http://xhamster.com/movies/1266157/3_ti ... lente.html
There are several ways. One is quite similar to edging, and examples (I believe) were seen in the videos referenced in the original post under item #1, where you just STOP doing anything to the penis when he's very close. It dances around, trying to find stimulation, but it fails to.
The second way is to put a thumb over the end to stop it.
The third is to press firmly on the urethra on the bottom of the penis, such that no (or very little) semen can get by.
The fourth is to firmly press on the prostate from the exterior (on the perineum, behind the testicles) or from the inside via the anus at the very beginning of the pulses.
Note that some of these can be used together. I've pressed the prostate while pressing the urethra while covering the end with a thumb.
After the pulses stop, let it all loose. Semen, or at least seminal fluid, will spurt out. Either stand back or be prepared to be covered with it!
The evidence this is different than an ordinary male orgasm is the lack of a refractory period. He does not "go soft" nor feel satisfied. You can continue with hands or mouth or toys or even tease by sitting on it and giving just a couple of strokes - although this can be risky. A typical session is to "ruin" somewhere between 4 and a dozen orgasms.
I've found the best lubricant to use on my hands is olive oil - right out of the kitchen. For one thing it's good for the skin - his and my hands. For another it's non-toxic, so if I want to use my tongue or even vagina, it's not going to harm anything. We usually do this on a faux-leather covered chair, which cleans up easily with a household cleaner. A lot of quantity will come out - as this is similar to "milking", it doesn't bring about satisfaction but is said to have some health benefits, but about 1/4 cup or 60 ML of fluid is released. I keep some towels or rags nearby to wipe things up, but be prepared to clean that amount up.
I'm going to have to take a hint from the videos, to end a session using ice, before cleaning him up an putting him back in chastity. I've got to keep my assets locked up, you know.
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