New chastity member

[Mike1979]

Hello. My name is Michael. My wife and I are new to chastity lifestyle. This is our third attempt at it. Each time we put the belt on. It's gets a little but easier for her. I'm working hard at not being pushy. She is doing better at not letting me feel neglected. I'm sure as with most new keyholders, she is not into it as much as I am. But she does like the idea of making out, or playing a little with me, and not feel pressured to have sex. I have read many posts on here and found this to be the best forum/site for information. Hopefully my wife sees some benifits on her side of this. But she has been very good about giving this a go. She has read a few articles on here that I have shown her. Hopefully she will join this site as well. Thank you for all the good information on this site.

[Locked by LRC]

As you are both experiencing, reality is different than fantasy. Very seldom does the KH see the device in the box and say "Awesome! Where's the key?" I would look at it as a positive that she is willing to restart each time. It took LRC well over a year before we were into a fulltime situation.

[locked4her55]

Hey Michael, Hopefully third time is the charm. My very vanilla wife was skeptical when we started MC over two years ago. Willing to give it a try because she knew I wanted it. It took time but she has really embraced this lifestyle. For many years in our marriage it was all about me. Now it's all about her. My advice would be as you said to not be pushy. Let it develop over time and show her how much she will benefit from this experience. Best of luck on your journey.

[Mike1979]

Thank you for the reply's. I am Letting her go at her own pace. I believe she is coming into it. I just need patience. Hopefully she will be a member soon.