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[Foreverhers]

Hello all!
The Princess and i have just started down this road, and are, so far, as happy as could be with the arrangement.
We do, however , have a question. HER penis is about 5" long and 1.5" wide when flaccid. We currently have me locked in an old school Curve with the 2" hinged ring. The problem is this: every night HER penis experiences nocturnal erections, which are so painful, they wake me. This necessitates me waking the Princess to beg to be released, which She graciously obliges to do. However, She is not too fond of being awakened from sleep at 5 AM! And, of course, I am not happy with being released.
I believe part of the problem lies in the base ring size, as, based on consensus measurement methods, it is about 1/4" to small. This effectively acts as a cockring, preventing the blood from retreating from HER penis.
Anybody experienced this issue before, and have any advice or ideas? Thanks in advance.

[Locked by LRC]

Welcome to the forum. I have a question for you. When you say you are 5" long is that an erect or flaccid measurement. If it's when erect some of your problem may be the Curve.

What I'm about to tell you may seem counterintuitive but seems to be the norm, so bear with me. You measure yourself when flaccid and get a cage close to this length. This helps to contain the erection and the severity of it. It also makes it more comfortable when not erect.

The worse time I had with a chastity device is when I wore the Curve. It's designed for someone who is over three to four inches when flaccid. I discovered that having the full length of the Curve to grow into added to the weight that the base ring was holding. With a shorter cage there isn't as much growth and the weight is less. I had to wear tight shorts to bed to have any comfort.

For the discomfort does it seem okay during the day? If it's okay then try getting up and walking around until the erection goes away. For many when first starting chastity the nocturnal's are the worse to get use to but eventually many do. Some don't and just take the device off at night.

[Tom Allen]

The Princess and i have just started down this road, and are, so far, as happy as could be with the arrangement.
We do, however , have a question. HER penis is about 5" long and 1.5" wide when flaccid. We currently have me locked in an old school Curve with the 2" hinged ring. The problem is this: every night HER penis experiences nocturnal erections, which are so painful, they wake me.

Hi For -

You should probably start by wearing the device for several hours, and then working up to overnights. Going from 0 to 60 often causes problems, until your body adapts. This can take several weeks.

Also, you might want to get that capslock key looked at.

[Foreverhers]

The measurement is flaccid. I fill the cage when soft. During the day the comfort is fine.
Tom- perhaps you're right and I just need time to adapt. Gonna see what happens over the next week or so. Thanks guys!