So by next week I am going to be seeing my partner "B" next weekend and it will have been three weeks since i have release. It is my first time in chastity and it will be the longest i have gone without sexual stimulation or touches.
Im looking for opinions, advice, experiences, and general thoughts really about what people think a chastised males first orgasm should be like after his first period of lock up.
first release
Re: first release
I would suggest not worrying about it too much. Just enjoy it. Too much expectation can lead to a bit of a let down.
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Wearing: Steelheart & Eternity Collar
Wearing: Steelheart & Eternity Collar
Re: first release
I do agree, its like when you get excited about a night out, the ones that aren't planned are always the best....
Although considering the circumstances it's hard not to get excited!
Although considering the circumstances it's hard not to get excited!
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Re: first release
Just remember that it will be the first release for your KH also, and she will be looking to you to see how you are feeling and what she should do. Even though as KH she is "in control," this is still new to her too, and you should both just take things slowly and with as little pressure (I know that it will be hard to do!) as possible.
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Re: first release
I agree with the "take it easy" advice. As "hard" as it's going to be try not to bring up being released or allowed an orgasm unless the K/H brings it up. When I first started LRC said that it made her feel like
she had to. Now that she's more comfortable, when I bring it all I get is "Yeah, right, like that's going to happen".
she had to. Now that she's more comfortable, when I bring it all I get is "Yeah, right, like that's going to happen".
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Previous devices - CB2000, 3000, 6000, 6000s, Curve
Previous devices - CB2000, 3000, 6000, 6000s, Curve
Re: first release
Good advice guys. I'll try my level best to keep in check and role with whatever "B" wants to do. This is about my commitment to her and her happiness so that should come first for sure and if I get good things my way, bonus!
Re: first release
This is where we are too only a little shorter, "Not going to happen".Locked by LRC wrote:Now that she's more comfortable, when I bring it all I get is "Yeah, right, like that's going to happen".
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Wearing: Steelheart & Eternity Collar
Wearing: Steelheart & Eternity Collar