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[lockedbyB]

Totally, I think a good chat over a glass of wine is needed and will do the trick while we are away.... I think until them I'll have to suck eggs and take my lock up like a good boy!

[lockedbyB]

Balls still aching loads today, gotta say though nowhere near as frustrated. After thinking loads about the situation and decided if its gonna be the case I'll get no stimulation there's no frustration. The belt just becomes an inconvenience really.

Kind of got me thinking about the whole picture.

I totally want to do everything to please "b" she is an amazing girl. But if it's going to work through chastity I think we need to have a chat when I'm released. If I'm to be made to work harder to please her, it's got to be give and take in certain ways not just one way.

As in I mean I do need stimulation in my life. Not necessarily physical but feelings. Whether its teased, made jealous, humiliated a bit, anything but not nothing at all. I don't see any fun in it at all and The situation at the moment with me getting zero anything has really put a downer on the experience and left me feeling isolated and needy.

Fingers crossed release will be mind blowing and the three weeks prior will be forgotten!


So hope I'm not making everyone who reads this miserable!! Just putting my experience and thoughts out there

[celticqueens_sub]

Also she is wanting me to travel in my cage but I am hesitant just purely because of getting through customs in my cage.

Ok.... this is a recurring theme.... do a quick search and you will find a ton of posts on this.. and now this one too...

You have to be sensible and avoid making yourself a victim of the security services. You are travelling to the middle east... don't put yourself at risk. If you go via body scanner from Heathrow they will see your device and you are bound to get taken to oneside. You remember the guy that set his crotch on fire in 2009 trying to smuggle explosives onto a plane in the USA? Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab was his name. They will look very unfavourably on you I am sure... Think how boring their job must be, thousands of people going through everyday, and then you show up with your dick locked up... If you have a plastic device on and use a plastic numbered lock you will be ok in the metal dector as long as it doesn't give a false reading and they frisk you and find your cage... I travel a lot and often with customers. The device comes off gets packed in main luggage and is replaced when I am in the hotel. Sometimes I go without. Real world gets in the way sadly..

The other strategy is walk right up and tell them " Hi my dick is locked up in a device, it might show up on your systems, just giving you the heads up" Let us know what you decide!

[lockedbyB]

To be fair everything you have said makes sense to me. As much fun as it might be i think the risks are just too high.
I have to say that would be a comical thing to say to a customs officer, there face would be priceless!

Things have just taken a right turn. I am aching and shaking head to toe. "B" has just skyped me, done up a little bit, made me undress and play with my balls for over an hour while she quizzed me, asked me and told me naughty things.
She told me that she has told her friends that she works away with all about me and that she wants them to see me locked up.

completely gob smacked, i really wasnt expecting this. "B" has told me she intends to tease me for hours on the day of my release but she will be really mad if i cum quickly..... which i am very worried about after being locked away for nearly three weeks and when she is amazing in bed.

Excited now and very nervous!

[celticqueens_sub]

Check this thread out.

http://www.chastityforums.com/viewtopic ... 96&start=0

[lockedbyB]

That's an interesting thread.
I think it's an interesting area the whole exposing thing. In the right way it can be fun and truly humiliating in the right way but it's a dangerous game.
I had no say in it what so ever when B did and does it to me. But I trust her whole heatedly and I think when you have that trust your limits and amount of fun you can have is almost endless.

Woke up this morning and my cock was simply dying to get hard after last night.... Total agony!!!

[Sir Chaste]

To celticqueens_sub: Has "the other strategy" ever really worked, to "walk right up and tell them" at TSA or European airport security that you are wearing a CD?

[celticqueens_sub]

To celticqueens_sub: Has "the other strategy" ever really worked, to "walk right up and tell them" at TSA or European airport security that you are wearing a CD?

Doubt it... I wouldn't be dumb enough to try... But I am sure you got the subtly of why I said it...

[Sir Chaste]

If you remember, Dev wrote a short story about this very subject. It is titled "Traveling Light," and it is posted in the Fiction Forum.

[lockedbyB]

That is a really cool story, I like things like that, that surprise you with a little twist. "B" my partner read it and really liked it.